The fuck? Do I want to date or not? What is wrong with me?

Shit is dangerous to do, I've had guys get very pissed at me for this behaviour.

  • Gorb [they/them]
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    2 months ago

    I tried dating ages ago and dated loads of people but everytime I got there I just wasn't that into and would think "damn i really could be playing bloodborne rn". I then discovered I had no interest in dating randos and wanted someone I actually cared about to appear which oddly enough happened about a month after I decided to stop with dating.

    For me I can only date someone I already know very well. This does infact demolish my dating pool but once I realised this I was much happier and played more Bloodborne.

    Idk if this helps at all but all i can do is share my experience maybe yours may line up?

    I've also found I can flirt easily with people I'm not interested in but the second someone i think is hot flirts i shut down mentally and cease being able to speak then run away.

    • ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml
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      2 months ago

      The secret is to date someone who you can play Bloodborne with.

      In fact, forget the dating

    • bigboopballs [he/him]
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      2 months ago

      wanted someone I actually cared about to appear which oddly enough happened about a month after I decided to stop with dating.

      how did it happen?

      • Gorb [they/them]
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        2 months ago

        Guy I met at work years ago I was very fond of and was friends with through shared work trauma. Ended up moving in together and some nights we'd drink and he'd listen to my rambles and then it got gay after doing some wholesome friendly spooning like you do with your friends. He's the only person in my life I have a deep trust for and the rest was just luck I guess.