well at the very least people should be lightly admonished for using them lol. i guess I can see the ban being impractical but don't think it's controversial that we should be aiming to phase that shit out

edit and I think some of the terms should be uncontroversially blasted off the site. don't tell me "pity passing" isn't a cognitohazard. folks need to be strongly encouraged to not express themselves using straight up harmful language, so I don't really buy the argument tbh. i guess if you're meta referencing the terms to critique them then it could be fine. but like I said I've seen people throwing them around jokingly which should be dealt with imo