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  • Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated
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    4 months ago
    advise on family hostility

    My mom just made some comments on how I changed my appearance and that she hopes the changes aren’t permanent. I’m not out to her yet and I’m not sure how to navigate this conversation. I’ve said that these changes are important to me but I can’t really explain why without saying I’m trans. If I tell her I’m trans she might understand better but she will interrogate me to death basically and I’m not sure if I’m ready for that yet. If I don’t tell her then she’ll probably keep commenting on my appearance because I’m definitely not done yet with changing how I look.

    What do 🥺

    • Yor [she/her]
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      4 months ago
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      could you avoid the bigger conversation by asking her to respect your decisions on your appearance? it's for you, after all. no matter what prompted the changes, maybe she'll drop it if you just explain that this makes you happy

      • Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated
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        4 months ago
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        Nah that just made her angry because ‘she should be allowed to voice her opinion’

        • ashinadash [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          No she should not, fuck her for that!

          Sorry she's like that meow-hug yeesh...