Cromalin [she/her]M to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns • 7 months agoi only have 6 of the 7imagemessage-square33 fedilinkarrow-up1113file-text
arrow-up1113imagei only have 6 of the 7Cromalin [she/her]M to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns • 7 months agomessage-square33 Commentsfedilinkfile-text
minus-squarediegeticscream[all]🔻@lemmygrad.mlhexbear25·7 months agoEven if you're not using it as a gendered term, it is a gendered term, and it can make people who don't identify that way feel bad. It doesn't seem worthwhile to use "dude" for everyone with that in mind. linkfedilink
minus-square新星 [they/them/🏳️⚧️]@lemmygrad.mlhexbear2·7 months agoAgreed. I imagine it can be dysphoria inducing for trans women, even if it is more gender neutral in your area. linkfedilink
minus-squareTheCaconym [any]hexbear8·7 months agoYou've got like ten people answering you kindly and you decided to just double down, eh ? See you back when you've done some thinking link
minus-squareCromalin [she/her]hexagonMhexbear5·7 months agoi don't want to be too defensive of them but they did do that before most of the responses came in if you look at the timestamps link
Even if you're not using it as a gendered term, it is a gendered term, and it can make people who don't identify that way feel bad.
It doesn't seem worthwhile to use "dude" for everyone with that in mind.
Agreed. I imagine it can be dysphoria inducing for trans women, even if it is more gender neutral in your area.
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You've got like ten people answering you kindly and you decided to just double down, eh ?
See you back when you've done some thinking
i don't want to be too defensive of them but they did do that before most of the responses came in if you look at the timestamps
True enough, I didn't notice that.