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        • NarcissistLeninist [he/him]
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          4 years ago

          One of the weirdest things about venmo is seeing someone send their spouse what is presumably like $7 for their half of a pizza they split

        • leftofthat [he/him]
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          4 years ago

          Buddy of mine is exactly like this. They each have like a personal account that they can use to buy whatever they want. The idea of consulting his wife before making a large purchase for himself with that money was appalling to him.

          I think it's exactly as you describe. Never lose the autonomy over yourself. It's a terrible relationship model imo