• Owl [he/him]
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    4 months ago

    things penises should represent:

    1. hehe that person's genitals are dangly
  • BioWarfarePosadist [she/her, they/them]
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    4 months ago

    To be honest I think one of the many reasons I'm trans is I felt dirty when I thought about being with a woman, as a man. I daydreamed of being in a lesbian relationship constantly, but when I thought of myself pre-awakening being with a woman, I felt like a rat, pervert, and creep. I always felt like I was some diseased plague carrier and having a relationship with anyone, especially women,would just make it obvious that that is what I was. Maybe I was thinking of my dick in the same terms as mentioned in OPs post.

    Since transitioning my relationships are getting much better, I have a few partners of varying genders.

  • princeofsin [he/him]
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    4 months ago

    As a pakistani/indian, cishet guy who grew up in Pakistan and now resides in the USA (DACA recipient). I just want to say that if i can process and understand that i'm attracted to the person and not their genitals. If I can process that so can the losers in the west who claim to be civilized.

  • Erika3sis [she/her, xe/xem]
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    4 months ago

    The penis is all things considered the least interesting part of the seminiferous system. Like, can I get some love for the tunicæ vaginales? The epididymides? The accessory glands? The prostatic utricle? Hello???

    • Xx_Aru_xX [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      I need some transmen to post "How I sleep knowing I have the best boy-vagina (I guess like girl cock?) and I'm always correct", or something appropriate I'm not a transman I don't get to decide.

  • Ideology [she/her]
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    4 months ago

    Let's play the penis game, I'll start:

    ₚₑₙᵢₛ

  • DinosaurThussy [they/them]
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    4 months ago

    Personally, I hate when I’m eating a succulent Chinese meal and police officers won’t stop touching my penis

  • allthetimesivedied [they/them, she/her]
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    4 months ago

    This was a problem with the friend I was in love with. They always used my pronouns and stuck up for me, but when it became known that I had “feelings for them” it seems like I stopped being one of their “girl friends.” They didn’t believe me when I said I wasn’t trying to get in their pants.

    Since then I’ve just fucking given up on being a “trans girl.” I no longer cringe inside when someone calls me a “he” or calls me “sir.”

    It doesn’t help that I am basically a guy in every facet. Hell I don’t even feel all that gross about having not shaved in like a week. And I act like a straight cis dude in a lot of ways; it feels wrong for me to expect to be “one of the girls.”

    • allthetimesivedied [they/them, she/her]
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      4 months ago

      And tbh I feel like the people who assured me that of course I’m a real girl (including the friend) contributed somewhat to this shit, because when my friends called me out for being kinda fucking weird I got to deflect it by saying to myself that they wouldn’t be saying this if not for my gender presentation.

      And I’m not saying anything about trans women, just me. You’re all women. It’s just, I’m not and never was.

    • Ideology [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      Assuming social pressure wasn't a factor, what would you like to be? Where does the center of your soul gravitate?

      when it became known that I had “feelings for them” it seems like I stopped being one of their “girl friends.”

      It's difficult to maintain friendships where attraction is asymmetrical. Most people don't have the maturity to get it under wraps and it tends to seep into every interaction regardless of gender. I don't know enough to say that your friend's internal transphobia is shining through but in general romantic feelings just complicate otherwise simple transactions.

      I mean we can't say she wouldn't have reacted similarly whether or not you were a "real" girl in her eyes.

  • Anne_Teefa
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    4 months ago

    It's like a gun, it's the intention of the user that becomes the issue. Hopefully my turn on the lathe doesn't cause the mandatory caging of all penises. Or hopefully it does. I'm a freak I do not care. Your move liberal. smuglord

      • Anne_Teefa
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        3 months ago

        Yeah. I kinda shitpost Willy nilly.

        Was kinda predicated upon the threat of penises by society and applying gun control rhetoric to it. Idk not my best bit.

        • wtypstanaccount04 [he/him]
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          3 months ago

          One could argue that one of the primary purposes of a penis is to do the opposite of killing (creating life)