Had some less than protected sex and did not pull out in time
I am not very smart and have very little self control, picked up some plan b but i live in a anti abortion state so im stressin i tell ya hwat. Just had to vent on the interwebs
Idk why i do this to myself but as a wise man once said, "we all make mistakes in the heat of passion jimbo"
I dont mind lmao, i was trying to be funny but also vent about it at the same time
I hate to sound like a southern sex ed teacher, but this is why pulling out is a bad idea. Pre-cum can knock up if you’re unlucky anyways.
Wear the dick galoshe! Doesn’t feel as good but it feels better than scare comrade.
If all else fails there are herbal remedies that induce abortion, but they carry risk.
I’m guilty of ditching the rubber because I can never get hard with it. Luckily it takes a lot to make me cum so I never had issues with Precum.
Me too man, i have to be fully hard, like rock solid before the condom goes on or im not capable of staying or getting more erect. Super frustrating. I dont really produce much pre cum at all either so i feel mostly safe there but non horny me knows its not worth the risk
PSA FOR READERS: if you can get the hormone stick in your arm it's well worth it for 5yrs of peace of mind.
We did that originally and it made her bleed for a year and a half straight so we tried an iud and it almost killed our relationship bc of how it fucked her hormones. For most people the stick is 100% worth it tho. My sister has had it for years and never looked back
Presumably your partner knows, but just in case - there's a ridiculously low weight limit for effectiveness for Plan B.
It's not about BMI, it's just weight, and it's something stupid like 150. Iirc, it's not completely useless, but it's much less effective.
The time I took it, it was fucking rough, I was crazy nauseous for a couple days after I took it, and then the period afterwards was a nightmare. But I didn't end up pregnant, so I guess that's a win.
Shes like 108lbs so she'll be fine i hope :) ill let her know to keep a lookout for bad times though. Thank you
What's done is done, but pull out strat is stupid to begin with, don't try it next time. You can get someone pregnant even doing it "successfully."
On the other hand, you can also have unprotected sex every night for months and not get a pregnancy no matter how hard you try. This shit's all random and it's really not especially likely that one mistake leads to a pregnancy. Just be smarter next time comrade, if you need to be responsible for a whole new person it should be when you're prepared for it
A woman I know who recently turned THIRTY YEARS OLD was confiding in me about a pregnancy scare because she used the pullout method and I was like
Yeah i know 🥲
We both like to think of ourselves as smarter than that but we are young and when things are in the moment we dont think rationally. Both of us being early twenties and adhd doesnt help im sure. We figured we' solve the problem yesterday by buying more condoms and just putting them everywhere we might have sex.
Maybe it was understandable when we were teenagers who recieved like 1 day of sex ed but i feel like we should definitely be more responsible by now
https://www.plancpills.org/ is an option for mail order abortion pills for anyone experiencing this problem.
If all else fails, you can also get or make Miso Cards https://fourthievesvinegar.org/abortion-care/
Been there. Was a time when my partner didn't have her period and we both stressed over it, turned out to be a false alarm. Hoping the best for you.
Thanks bro, its my long term partner as well so im not stressed about getting someone i barely know pregnant atleast. Just definitely not ready for a kid yk, we are broke
Kids are a big deal and you're right to worry about bringing someone into the world you can't afford to support. Once again republicans really don't care about life, just controlling women.
Put a condom or two in your wallet, put condoms in your car, condoms at your place, condoms at her place. Always have condoms on hand, it's honestly the easiest way to avoid something like this.
Just for future knowledge I guess, can't do anything about it now. My girlfriend missed her period once and we were both scared as hell but she never became pregnant (was also not on the pill or anything). She said it was likely cause she took a long plane ride soon after and jet lag messed with her schedule or something (she said this had happened to her before).
You're not supposed to use your wallet since they are likely to wear out and break when you need them.
Common volcel pledge win.
Edit: what actually is the effective rate of a plan B? Because I've only had to resort to it once and so far, 100% efficacy
Its around 87.5% according to the box but it really depends on your weight and how soon you take the plan b
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-do-i-get-condoms
If it's any consolation, even if there's no protection whatsoever, it can still be difficult to get pregnant. Look at how many couples try for months to get pregnant.
Dont worry about it ❤️
Im not stressing hard enough for that to really bother me :P
On second thought, if worst comes to worst I bet mutual aid got you. I’m sure we could help get your partner to a free state. Don’t doom stress, you have comrades.
I appreciate that but i dont want to take resources from those who would need them more, we have family who could help us out with that should it come to it
