sex is a lot more than just penetration. People really limit themselves by focusing their definition of sex around whether a person with a cock has cum or not.
Queer sex tends to be more of a vibe. It’s different than porn or whatever. also helps if you are multi-orgasmic (easier if you aren’t a cis dude)
Good news! It’s not impossible for cis dudes to be multi-orgasmic. You just need to work on kegels + edging stuff.
If you look at it as a game, you can learn the rhythms of your body even better. It’s more challenging because cis guys tend to have longer refractory periods and their orgasms have that feeling of “inevitability” that can override a desire to taper back.
You know what's the big fuck8ng problem? The fucking mess of cum everywhere, yeah yeah "it's part of the fun blah blah", it gets really annoying, sometimes I wanna have some sex without having to chage evrything and take a shower afterwards, shower sex is nice yeah but beds are a great thing too
In my experience it's usually rounds of sex with rounds of cuddling in between. A round of sex can usually go for a while, but even so it's not like someone's getting their bits licked for 8 hours continuously
Also when neither partner has a refractory period there's less of a physical limitation
IMO the between rounds shit cannot be overstated enough for cishet people especially. Still the reason foreplay is a cultural joke in cishet relationships. I don't think they understand quite how much the joke is true even for the ones joking about it though.
Multiple hours, I dunno, but you can make the whole experience last a long time if it's not just straight pounding. Do foreplay, dirty talk, hand/mouth stuff for 30+ minutes. Every nipple should be lovingly sucked.
Fine, I'll ask:
How do people have sex for hours? Do people not get tired and sore?
sex is a lot more than just penetration. People really limit themselves by focusing their definition of sex around whether a person with a cock has cum or not.
Queer sex tends to be more of a vibe. It’s different than porn or whatever. also helps if you are multi-orgasmic (easier if you aren’t a cis dude)
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Good news! It’s not impossible for cis dudes to be multi-orgasmic. You just need to work on kegels + edging stuff.
If you look at it as a game, you can learn the rhythms of your body even better. It’s more challenging because cis guys tend to have longer refractory periods and their orgasms have that feeling of “inevitability” that can override a desire to taper back.
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this is very important work for any committed member of the volcel vanguard
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omfg this is just like how lizzy died
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You know what's the big fuck8ng problem? The fucking mess of cum everywhere, yeah yeah "it's part of the fun blah blah", it gets really annoying, sometimes I wanna have some sex without having to chage evrything and take a shower afterwards, shower sex is nice yeah but beds are a great thing too
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that's what swallowing is for
Pineapples are expensive where I live
amab trans people on HRT have a cheat code for this
high levels of t blockers and estradiol lower you cum output to basically zero
I haven't yet tried the soy lecitin & zink trick
In my experience it's usually rounds of sex with rounds of cuddling in between. A round of sex can usually go for a while, but even so it's not like someone's getting their bits licked for 8 hours continuously
Also when neither partner has a refractory period there's less of a physical limitation
Doing Drugs, tantric sex, taking a break, and just making out before moving on to the next session.
IMO the between rounds shit cannot be overstated enough for cishet people especially. Still the reason foreplay is a cultural joke in cishet relationships. I don't think they understand quite how much the joke is true even for the ones joking about it though.
I think a lot of the utility of bdsm is just training people what to do with their hands
o7
Sports drinks help a lot.
Being young
Multiple hours, I dunno, but you can make the whole experience last a long time if it's not just straight pounding. Do foreplay, dirty talk, hand/mouth stuff for 30+ minutes. Every nipple should be lovingly sucked.