doing a friendly chat with hillary clinton, a war criminal who is directly responsible for countless deaths abroad and at home, while making a career as an edgy radical left video essayist is incredibly hilarious pic.twitter.com/a9Y2nh4ePe— ☀️👀 (@zei_squirrel) September 19, 2022
cringe af, but no need to link a transphobic patsoc wrecker (sun emoji = patsoc, highlighting irrelevant youtuber drama, intentionally using they / them pronouns for a binary trans woman to misgender her).
Meh, maybe i'm overly suspicious here. It just always rubs me the wrong way when out of all the breadtube libs, people always end up picking on the trans ones specifically.
Also nice how everybody suddenly starts dogpiling me here. Feels great.
I wasn't really intending to "dogpile" you I just don't really know how else to say what I said, which needed to be put clearly for the sake of anyone else here that might not check the details, without it being quite blunt.
There's no ill-intent towards you. People make mistakes around here all the time myself very much included in that. Please don't take it personally.
If you're using it universally, it isn't. If you're using it for trans people expressly using gendered pronouns, it's a common form to express you do not really view them as valid without being too openly transphobic.
I don't want genderless though - I'm a woman and would like to be affirmatively treated as such. assuming that degendering is appropriate on my behalf is just as much intentional misgendering.
yes, default to neutral choices when referring to unknown or unspecified people, or for those whose pronouns you do not know. but a new genderless language dropped wholecloth on the present solves literally nothing about either sexism or transphobia.
the problem isn't language - it's that people think we're women and not-women, men and not-men, at the same time! better ways to hide that fact without addressing the contradictions at the heart of society is a defense of the status quo, a way to sweep the problems of the present under the rug.
yes, I'm coming off strong about an innocuous comment but this is liberalism and Combat Liberalism.
the problem in this particular case where there was ambiguity between someone referring to breadtubers as a group they or misgendering a woman with singular-they is absolutely a language problem, and my wistful dreaming of that not being an issue is not meant to address the larger social issues.
if you know someone's pronouns, use them. they/them is only correct if someone explicitly tells you they're comfortable with them or if you're speaking about someone non-specific or a third-party who's pronouns you don't know. transphobes routinely address binary trans people with they/them in order to misgender with plausible deniability.
I've followed zei_squirrel for a while now and all they really do is take some ongoing news item and tweet out a relevant Parenti and/or Norman Finkelstein and/or Malcolm X clip.
I just re-read the twitter thread because people keep replying to me defending that PoS and no, i do not think they're talking about breadtubers in general, as no other breadtuber / leftist stremer / etc. has appeared on Hillary Clinton's show.
Also this person apparently is friends with Glenn Greenwald and is praised in the replies for refusing to "throw him under the bus". I'm feeling more gaslit with every reply i'm getting here.
I don't even know what's real anymore. I don't know if i can trust my observations or if i'm imagining transphobia anywhere. I think that's more devestating to me than having been clearly in the wrong. I could live with having been wrong about this, with having been too trigger-happy, we all make mistakes and sometimes you're just stretched too thin and bark up the wrong tree, that happens and i'd just admit i've been wrong and apologize. No biggie, i have no problem with that. But this nagging self doubt, that's just awful.
FWIW, you're not alone in reading this as transphobia. There are other people on twitter thinking the same thing. I think both interpretations are reasonable and these tweets are just (unknowably intentionally) ambiguous. Zei has a reasonable defense because they use "these people" after a couple tweets, and they deny using they/them for Natalie when called out.
Others have already given real explanations but in a lighter tone, see Alice from :wtyp: 's Twitter, she lists her pronouns as "she/her, or they/them if you're mad at me"
no my pronouns are she/her. being called they/them feels dehumanizing - if you know my pronouns, don’t use the wrong ones intentionally.
it's something I actually tried for a while as a compromise in early transition and it quite literally made me feel like an alien. it doesn't quite deaden me inside the way he/him does but I'm not any more comfortable with it.
they/them is routinely used to intentionally misgender binary trans people while protecting plausible deniability. don't be a lib about this.
there's cases were that's appropriate (referring to a group, referring to people where pronouns are unclear, referring to people who actually use they/them pronouns), there's also cases were it is used intentionally by people who do not want to recognize trans women as women. i don't know how much more often i'll have to explain this here, just keep it going, it's really fun and not tiresome at all to have to defend and explain myself all day long in a supposedly trans-inclusive space just because i made one angry off-hand remark about some shithead on twitter.
cringe af, but no need to link a transphobic patsoc wrecker (sun emoji = patsoc, highlighting irrelevant youtuber drama, intentionally using they / them pronouns for a binary trans woman to misgender her).
do better next time.
This comment is very wrong. They are neither a patsoc nor do they misgender anyone.
What are you referring to? This twitter user has had the sun emoji for longer than the patsoc horseshit
Meh, maybe i'm overly suspicious here. It just always rubs me the wrong way when out of all the breadtube libs, people always end up picking on the trans ones specifically.
Also nice how everybody suddenly starts dogpiling me here. Feels great.
Its three people responding to you, just disengage.
well i do
I wasn't really intending to "dogpile" you I just don't really know how else to say what I said, which needed to be put clearly for the sake of anyone else here that might not check the details, without it being quite blunt.
There's no ill-intent towards you. People make mistakes around here all the time myself very much included in that. Please don't take it personally.
I dont think theyre picking on her because shes trans, but because she went on a Hillary Clinton show.
Probably because no one other bread liberal is doing a documentary with Hillary Clinton lol
deleted by creator
Is using a neutral they transphobia? Ive been using they to refer to basically anyone and everyone including cis men and women
EDIT: She clarified further about the “they” to refer to streamers as plural https://mobile.twitter.com/zei_squirrel/status/1572018297377558528
If you're using it universally, it isn't. If you're using it for trans people expressly using gendered pronouns, it's a common form to express you do not really view them as valid without being too openly transphobic.
I think you wildly misinterpreted them regardless
https://mobile.twitter.com/zei_squirrel/status/1572018297377558528
deleted by creator
ambiguity :sadness:
but we don't really have anything better, genderless conlang when
Just use a non European language, no conlang required
Chinese "ta"s keep winning.
Removed by mod
Lmao yes we must abolish the Chinese languages.
Mao tried to abolish characters. It didn't take, unfortunately.
I don't want genderless though - I'm a woman and would like to be affirmatively treated as such. assuming that degendering is appropriate on my behalf is just as much intentional misgendering.
yes, default to neutral choices when referring to unknown or unspecified people, or for those whose pronouns you do not know. but a new genderless language dropped wholecloth on the present solves literally nothing about either sexism or transphobia.
the problem isn't language - it's that people think we're women and not-women, men and not-men, at the same time! better ways to hide that fact without addressing the contradictions at the heart of society is a defense of the status quo, a way to sweep the problems of the present under the rug.
yes, I'm coming off strong about an innocuous comment but this is liberalism and Combat Liberalism.
the problem in this particular case where there was ambiguity between someone referring to breadtubers as a group they or misgendering a woman with singular-they is absolutely a language problem, and my wistful dreaming of that not being an issue is not meant to address the larger social issues.
if you know someone's pronouns, use them. they/them is only correct if someone explicitly tells you they're comfortable with them or if you're speaking about someone non-specific or a third-party who's pronouns you don't know. transphobes routinely address binary trans people with they/them in order to misgender with plausible deniability.
i have the chipmunk person mentally filed as annoying, but i don't think they're a "patsoc" are they?
I've followed zei_squirrel for a while now and all they really do is take some ongoing news item and tweet out a relevant Parenti and/or Norman Finkelstein and/or Malcolm X clip.
:fry:
noted “not at all transphobic person”
Aw, did he really? I had not heard about this.
deleted by creator
I just re-read the twitter thread because people keep replying to me defending that PoS and no, i do not think they're talking about breadtubers in general, as no other breadtuber / leftist stremer / etc. has appeared on Hillary Clinton's show.
Also this person apparently is friends with Glenn Greenwald and is praised in the replies for refusing to "throw him under the bus". I'm feeling more gaslit with every reply i'm getting here.
deleted by creator
I don't even know what's real anymore. I don't know if i can trust my observations or if i'm imagining transphobia anywhere. I think that's more devestating to me than having been clearly in the wrong. I could live with having been wrong about this, with having been too trigger-happy, we all make mistakes and sometimes you're just stretched too thin and bark up the wrong tree, that happens and i'd just admit i've been wrong and apologize. No biggie, i have no problem with that. But this nagging self doubt, that's just awful.
deleted by creator
FWIW, you're not alone in reading this as transphobia. There are other people on twitter thinking the same thing. I think both interpretations are reasonable and these tweets are just (unknowably intentionally) ambiguous. Zei has a reasonable defense because they use "these people" after a couple tweets, and they deny using they/them for Natalie when called out.
That’s not at all clear.
deleted by creator
I see this a lot and hate how it doesn't get called out enough
at least it didn't happen this time
huhhh, isnt they/them supposed to work as a gender neutral pronoun?? Ive used it all the time when I did not know
Others have already given real explanations but in a lighter tone, see Alice from :wtyp: 's Twitter, she lists her pronouns as "she/her, or they/them if you're mad at me"
deleted by creator
When I was early in transition, everyone else was "he" and "she", but I was "they" to anyone who didn't want to acknowledge me as a woman.
It's totally a thing for cis people to us a "neutral" they only for trans people regardless of their gender.
deleted by creator
no my pronouns are she/her. being called they/them feels dehumanizing - if you know my pronouns, don't use the wrong ones intentionally.
yeah honestly it seems like people are mad over nothing on this one
deleted by creator
no my pronouns are she/her. being called they/them feels dehumanizing - if you know my pronouns, don’t use the wrong ones intentionally.
it's something I actually tried for a while as a compromise in early transition and it quite literally made me feel like an alien. it doesn't quite deaden me inside the way he/him does but I'm not any more comfortable with it.
they/them is routinely used to intentionally misgender binary trans people while protecting plausible deniability. don't be a lib about this.
there's cases were that's appropriate (referring to a group, referring to people where pronouns are unclear, referring to people who actually use they/them pronouns), there's also cases were it is used intentionally by people who do not want to recognize trans women as women. i don't know how much more often i'll have to explain this here, just keep it going, it's really fun and not tiresome at all to have to defend and explain myself all day long in a supposedly trans-inclusive space just because i made one angry off-hand remark about some shithead on twitter.
you’re very much understood and very much supported here.
Usually people will identify themselves as she/them or he/them if they are cool with both.