• AcidSmiley [she/her]
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    2 years ago

    cringe af, but no need to link a transphobic patsoc wrecker (sun emoji = patsoc, highlighting irrelevant youtuber drama, intentionally using they / them pronouns for a binary trans woman to misgender her).

    do better next time.

    • Awoo [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      This comment is very wrong. They are neither a patsoc nor do they misgender anyone.

    • Poison_Ivy [comrade/them]
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      2 years ago

      What are you referring to? This twitter user has had the sun emoji for longer than the patsoc horseshit

      • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        Meh, maybe i'm overly suspicious here. It just always rubs me the wrong way when out of all the breadtube libs, people always end up picking on the trans ones specifically.

        Also nice how everybody suddenly starts dogpiling me here. Feels great.

        • Awoo [she/her]
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          2 years ago

          I wasn't really intending to "dogpile" you I just don't really know how else to say what I said, which needed to be put clearly for the sake of anyone else here that might not check the details, without it being quite blunt.

          There's no ill-intent towards you. People make mistakes around here all the time myself very much included in that. Please don't take it personally.

        • grey_wolf_whenever [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          I dont think theyre picking on her because shes trans, but because she went on a Hillary Clinton show.

        • Shoegazer [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          Probably because no one other bread liberal is doing a documentary with Hillary Clinton lol

    • Comp4 [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      If I recall correctly the sun itself doesnt mean patsoc (Its gorillas and suns in combination which are Infrareds whole schtick) also a cursory glance at the profile doesnt scream patsoc to me. OK I edited the comment guess the person in question isnt a transphobe. IF you see someone with a gorilla AND a sun you can bet they are a patsoc...also stuff like mechatankie is a dead giveaway.

      • Poison_Ivy [comrade/them]
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        2 years ago

        Is using a neutral they transphobia? Ive been using they to refer to basically anyone and everyone including cis men and women

        EDIT: She clarified further about the “they” to refer to streamers as plural https://mobile.twitter.com/zei_squirrel/status/1572018297377558528

        • Comp4 [she/her]
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          2 years ago

          Im not the person you want to ask about that. Im queer but I know very little about the nuances of pronouns in the english language. (not my mother tongue)

        • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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          2 years ago

          Is using a neutral they transphobia?

          If you're using it universally, it isn't. If you're using it for trans people expressly using gendered pronouns, it's a common form to express you do not really view them as valid without being too openly transphobic.

          • Poison_Ivy [comrade/them]
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            2 years ago

            I think you wildly misinterpreted them regardless

            https://mobile.twitter.com/zei_squirrel/status/1572018297377558528

                • spring_rabbit [she/her]
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                  2 years ago

                  There’s nastiness, sexism and transphobia shot through the entire hanzi system and I don’t see how to reform it without getting rid of it altogether.

                  Lmao yes we must abolish the Chinese languages.

                  • Fdos [none/use name]
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                    2 years ago

                    Mao tried to abolish characters. It didn't take, unfortunately.

                    • Fdos [none/use name]
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                      2 years ago

                      Mod removed my post explaining that the Chinese "ta" isn't neutral whatsoever.

                      "The writing system must be reformed; we must move in the direction of a globally unified phonetic spelling system."

                      -- People's Daily, 20th of December, 1977

                      • spring_rabbit [she/her]
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                        2 years ago

                        他 isn't neutral anymore, but it was until the 20th century. I don't think that's the reactionary part of your post though, so much as insisting that the entire writing system is full of "nastiness, sexism and transphobia" without further clarification.

                        • Fdos [none/use name]
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                          2 years ago

                          她 is "she". The 女 part of the character means "woman". It is a pictograph of a woman holding a child. As if all women can have children. It's sexist and transphobic. I could go on, but suffice it to say that the entire hanzi system of characters has this shit baked into it and none of it will ever go away without outside action. Mao tried but couldn't get it done.

                          • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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                            2 years ago

                            You're confusing 她 with 好, which is where the whole "woman holding a child" etymology comes from. 也 isn't a child. In modern Chinese, it means "also" while in classical Chinese, it's used as an emphatic final particle like modern Japanese よ. The radical for child is 子, as you can see in the oracle bone script which looks like a pictogram of a child raising their arms.

                            Both versions of 他 and 她 are phono-semantic characters like the vast majority of Chinese characters, where one radical denotes phonetic meaning while another radical denotes semantic meaning. In this case, 也 is the phonetic radical. It doesn't make sense in Mandarin (you're comparing ta1 vs ye3), but in old Chinese, 他 and 也 were a lot similar in pronunciation.

                            女 doesn't have anything related to children going by the oracle bone script either. Neither does , which means mother in modern Chinese.

                            Mao tried but couldn’t get it done.

                            Because it was an absolutely terrible idea that almost no one else other than weirdos who stan the Gang of 4 too hard during the Cultural Revolution would agree with. And it's quite convenient that "reactionary" hanzi has to be discarded for the "progressive" script used by imperialists that sacked the Old Summer Palace during the Century of Humiliation.

                            You literally just need to replace the problematic characters with new characters. Like, you don't have to ditch the entire system. What kind of ultra nonsense is that?

                            • Poison_Ivy [comrade/them]
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                              2 years ago

                              Absolutely wild that white libs will propose in the guize of being “leftist”

                              Like eliminating an entire language is cultural genocide not inclusiveness.

                              • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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                                2 years ago

                                The vast majority of critiques over Chinese characters is cope by Westerners who suck at memorizing and writing Chinese characters.

                                "Wah, my hand hurts from practicing Chinese characters, why can't they ditch hanzi for pinyin?"

                          • spring_rabbit [she/her]
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                            2 years ago

                            And the English word "woman" comes from the social role of "wife". Should we discard that as sexist as well? How many people actually look at 女 and think "that's a mother, and cannot refer to trans women."?

                            • robot_dog_with_gun [they/them]
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                              2 years ago

                              probably some? i've seen 1-2 people unironically suggest we stop using the word "robot" because it's etymology has something to do with slavery,

                              • spring_rabbit [she/her]
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                                2 years ago

                                In Chinese robot combat (like King of Bots and This is Fighting Robots) they are sometimes called 机器人 which is robot (machine-person) and sometimes 铁甲, or Iron Armor. I think that's pretty dope but maybe it's also problematic.

                                • robot_dog_with_gun [they/them]
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                                  2 years ago

                                  huh, that seems like personification to me to differentiate with machines that don't appear to move on their own (i think some other languages the words for self-motive things are along the lines of "x with a soul") but i don't know any of the other social or etymological context that might make it bad.

                                  i liked those shows. not really used to chinese TV editing norms but there were some great fights in there. ha! Jonathan Pearce saying "iron armorment" would be hilarious.

                          • nine_leven [none/use name]
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                            2 years ago

                            The (lamentable) fact that Mao's writing system reform failed is probably evidence enough that hanzi is unlikely to be abandoned in our lifetimes.

                            For digital communication at least, you can convert hanzi to pinyin and back very easily, that's what I do when I don't just need ASAP machine translation...

          • silent_water [she/her]
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            2 years ago

            I don't want genderless though - I'm a woman and would like to be affirmatively treated as such. assuming that degendering is appropriate on my behalf is just as much intentional misgendering.

            yes, default to neutral choices when referring to unknown or unspecified people, or for those whose pronouns you do not know. but a new genderless language dropped wholecloth on the present solves literally nothing about either sexism or transphobia.

            the problem isn't language - it's that people think we're women and not-women, men and not-men, at the same time! better ways to hide that fact without addressing the contradictions at the heart of society is a defense of the status quo, a way to sweep the problems of the present under the rug.

            yes, I'm coming off strong about an innocuous comment but this is liberalism and Combat Liberalism.

            • robot_dog_with_gun [they/them]
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              2 years ago

              the problem in this particular case where there was ambiguity between someone referring to breadtubers as a group they or misgendering a woman with singular-they is absolutely a language problem, and my wistful dreaming of that not being an issue is not meant to address the larger social issues.

        • silent_water [she/her]
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          2 years ago

          if you know someone's pronouns, use them. they/them is only correct if someone explicitly tells you they're comfortable with them or if you're speaking about someone non-specific or a third-party who's pronouns you don't know. transphobes routinely address binary trans people with they/them in order to misgender with plausible deniability.

      • Coca_Cola_but_Commie [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        I've followed zei_squirrel for a while now and all they really do is take some ongoing news item and tweet out a relevant Parenti and/or Norman Finkelstein and/or Malcolm X clip.

      • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        I just re-read the twitter thread because people keep replying to me defending that PoS and no, i do not think they're talking about breadtubers in general, as no other breadtuber / leftist stremer / etc. has appeared on Hillary Clinton's show.

        Also this person apparently is friends with Glenn Greenwald and is praised in the replies for refusing to "throw him under the bus". I'm feeling more gaslit with every reply i'm getting here.

          • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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            2 years ago

            I don't even know what's real anymore. I don't know if i can trust my observations or if i'm imagining transphobia anywhere. I think that's more devestating to me than having been clearly in the wrong. I could live with having been wrong about this, with having been too trigger-happy, we all make mistakes and sometimes you're just stretched too thin and bark up the wrong tree, that happens and i'd just admit i've been wrong and apologize. No biggie, i have no problem with that. But this nagging self doubt, that's just awful.

            • StewartCopelandsDad [he/him]
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              2 years ago

              FWIW, you're not alone in reading this as transphobia. There are other people on twitter thinking the same thing. I think both interpretations are reasonable and these tweets are just (unknowably intentionally) ambiguous. Zei has a reasonable defense because they use "these people" after a couple tweets, and they deny using they/them for Natalie when called out.

    • Rem [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      intentionally using they / them pronouns for a binary trans woman to misgender her

      I see this a lot and hate how it doesn't get called out enough

    • 1heCream [he/him, any]
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      2 years ago

      intentionally using they / them pronouns for a binary trans woman to misgender her).

      huhhh, isnt they/them supposed to work as a gender neutral pronoun?? Ive used it all the time when I did not know

      • reddit [any,they/them]
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        2 years ago

        Others have already given real explanations but in a lighter tone, see Alice from :wtyp: 's Twitter, she lists her pronouns as "she/her, or they/them if you're mad at me"

      • spring_rabbit [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        When I was early in transition, everyone else was "he" and "she", but I was "they" to anyone who didn't want to acknowledge me as a woman.

        It's totally a thing for cis people to us a "neutral" they only for trans people regardless of their gender.

        • silent_water [she/her]
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          2 years ago

          no my pronouns are she/her. being called they/them feels dehumanizing - if you know my pronouns, don’t use the wrong ones intentionally.

          it's something I actually tried for a while as a compromise in early transition and it quite literally made me feel like an alien. it doesn't quite deaden me inside the way he/him does but I'm not any more comfortable with it.

          they/them is routinely used to intentionally misgender binary trans people while protecting plausible deniability. don't be a lib about this.

      • silent_water [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        no my pronouns are she/her. being called they/them feels dehumanizing - if you know my pronouns, don't use the wrong ones intentionally.

      • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        there's cases were that's appropriate (referring to a group, referring to people where pronouns are unclear, referring to people who actually use they/them pronouns), there's also cases were it is used intentionally by people who do not want to recognize trans women as women. i don't know how much more often i'll have to explain this here, just keep it going, it's really fun and not tiresome at all to have to defend and explain myself all day long in a supposedly trans-inclusive space just because i made one angry off-hand remark about some shithead on twitter.

      • TankBombadil [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        Usually people will identify themselves as she/them or he/them if they are cool with both.