There should just be a test where you spit in a vial and mail it off and then you get results back in 4-6 weeks saying what gender you truly are. C'mon eggheads it can't be that hard and this ragged hole torn in my identity ain't closing up any time soon
Probably just gonna have to go to therapy like a rube >:(
I want a catalogue where I can flip through a bunch of genders and be like “that one looks tasty”. The closest I’ve gotten is TikTok.
If you're seriously questioning and if your place has any kind of gatekeeping around gender-affirming care, you should absolutely find a therapist as early as possible. Not only will that help you figure things out, once you do have figured things out you may want to make the next move quickly and then you'll run into restrictions like "getting that massive, massive dysphoria trigger removed requires that you've seen a therapist for a year" or smth like that.
The problem here is finding a therapist that is trans friendly and has no hangups about enbies. Local trans help organisations may be able to help you with that, there could also be online lists.
Yeah I searched for therapists taking my insurance and found a few promising results. All that remains is actually setting things up, which is actually the harder part, especially now that I'm working full time :omori-miserable:
Oh but fr how do you go from the ass on #2 to the ass on #3? In a single step. Not fair
I just got gender dysphoria under control enough to be invested in my body. Leg day sucks but I will report back
Lose the book and start dressing like Steve Jobs. Use all your newly freed brain cells to will your ass into being.
TFW you put pronouns in your bio but it didn't make you look hotter.
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that's not guaranteed but putting they in your pronouns makes your butt bigger
I'm already at the third stage
and my god, I will complete the process
I put he/him/big fella. Also my ass and legs are fantastic because I bike everywhere and hike in the Rockies. Correlation.
I put he/they because I don't really care what gender I am in the intertubes, but to show also where my perspective comes from if I post some sort of hot take by accident.
Also large assed so that's 2 for 2 correlation.
stepping in and ruining the fun by mentioning that the original artist of the base image apparently posts a fuck ton of incest porn
he/they all the way except the point i'm at in the pipeline is entirely random and up to the planets or something
I've been on HRT for about two and a half years now and I currently look like the middle one so memes like this usually get lots of "it's funny because it's true" points from me
