There really needs to be some solid communist dating advice for these young men, other than "just be yourself" and "be a good person" kind of stuff. Like real, concrete steps on how a guy can be diverted from the incel/pua/tate path. Tbh a lot of the pua advice is common sense stuff (try to groom yourself well, don't be afraid to put yourself out there, etc.).
I remember there were some good comments in a thread somewhere here (I'm pretty sure it was on c/menby but I can't seem to find it)
I WONDER WHY
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Patriarchy and toxic masculinity. A Real Alpha Man™ fucks and if you don't then you're a loser and fair game for ridicule.
A lot of these young men holds some disgusting ideas that prevents them from finding willing partners. Did they get those ideas because they can't find partners or are they unable to find partners because they have such ideas? It might vary and it is possibly very much a chicken and egg type of situation, either way the two reinforces eachother in a vicious cycle of hatred and rejection.
Other people are perfectly nice and sane but still fail to find sexual and romantic partners for non-incel reasons like disability, neurodiversity or stressful material conditions.
Don't forget how current pop culture within media distorts reality into some weird perception on how a "true man" must act, a lot of shit from the incel crowd is merely just the gestated fulfillment of ironically nerdy directors creating movie/show genres in which (smart/nerd = undesirable/disgusting and that only the physically fit and trim are to be desired) or that said "nerd/geek/etc" must be domineering in their attitude to get what they want (i.e. the red pill multiple plates shit). There's a reason lots of "main characters" in media act demeaning or abusive towards others such as modern Sherlock Holmes being an asshat. This all is done to obfuscate the fact that dating and getting to know people is just talking to fellow human beings and seeing if you click or enjoy each others company. If such encounters don't immediately lead to sexual dominance or relational ownership means failure on the part of the male in "capturing" the attention of the woman. This then leads to incels finding a coping ideology to explain this "failure" (i.e. I am a genetic dead or end or other "black pill" shit which eventually culminates in a shooting that ends with innocents killed/harmed and the shooter getting suicide by self or cop).
tldr: Incels are the thanaton drive byproduct of a male dominated society that has created a clusterfuck when it comes to dating by designing a fictitious fantasy that only particular men are entitled to relationships and that intimacy via sex is the ultimate "reward" of said relationships.
Knew someone who was a dick to girls who rejected them who later admitted that was because that's what he saw on adam sandler movies.
Pop culture literally breaking people's brains
Dae entertainment has no effect on its consumers touch grass touch grass :so-true:
well i meant from the other direction
we dunk on them because they say awful shit