https://www.reddit.com/r/bigdickproblems/comments/ylgfrx/im_unhealthily_obsessed_with_my_own_cock/
literally every other post is like "hey, i feel anxious about my body. how many days in a row should i post on here before i learn self-acceptance?"
I don't know what's going on with that post, but having a penis that is significantly larger than average can cause a lot of problems for your sex life. The vast majority of people with vaginas have average vaginas that more or less match up with average penises. If your penis is too big it can be uncomfortable or painful for your partner, or you might just not be able to get it in at all.
Combined with the social expectation that bigger = better for penis size a good number of people end up depressed, alienated from their own body, and convinced that they'll never be able to have successful romantic or sexual relationships. This is an issue that's difficult for people to talk about because for the most part it's uncritically assumed that having a large penis is more desirable, so you're liable to be mocked or shamed if you try to confide in someone.
I had a couple tangles with a dude who was hanging magnum dong. Couldn't get it in. Was a bummer. I ended up topping which isn't a problem for me but hey it would have been fun to go all the way.
It would actually be impressive for your life to be impacted on a significant level (beyond positive gossip, maybe?) by being on the larger side, unless you're in the adult industries. The DICK=LIFE :frothingfash: energy is heavily embedded in :amerikkka: machoism.