I couldn’t figure out how to archive the post on my phone, but the sex pests on Ovarit are losing their minds that a trans woman who they find attractive pre hrt is choosing to transition.

She’s apparently deleted her account after a number of these women have crawled through her posts looking for pics to coom over.

The post is here. If you want to see some “feminist” women engage in absolute incel behavior and demand that someone they find attractive maintain the appearance they want. It’s a like the mirror image of incel dudes crying about women who they have no chance with choosing to die their hair blue and get piercings.

  • WittyProfileName2 [she/her]
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    2 years ago

    :dead-dove-1:

    :dead-dove-2:

    Lots of hateful bile in that thread, just completely feral shitheads.

    I found these two comments interesting though.

    [–] yesisaiditxx 4 points 7 hours ago

    For some reason when I see dudes who are super into having big muscles I sorta assume there’s some kind of hidden issue with femininity that is possibly that they, like this guy, have a fetish for wanting to look attractive to other men, and the LIFTING HEAVY BRO is what they channel it into. I know that’s a lot of analyzing and sounds mean but I can’t help but see that in probably half of the python-armed men I’ve met.

    [–] drinkwater 5 points 6 hours ago

    Majority of men are homoerotic, they focus their positive feelings on other men and their sexual and violent feelings on women.

    There's a vibe to this exchange that puts me in mind of 2010's incel discourse where a lot of them were like "sports gay because musclemen in close proximity", I just find it weird that allegedly feminist spaces are recycling 2010's misogynist nerd culture discourse.

    Also

    gym bro dedicates hours to working out... and then feels distress at not being a dainty little girl?

    Literally me circa 2016.

    • TheLepidopterists [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      fetish for wanting to look attractive to other men

      How is wanting other people to find you attractive a fetish? Like, am I crazy or is this not a pretty typical desire to have?

      • WittyProfileName2 [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        A lot of TERF shit is calling something perfectly normal a fetish so they can pathologise it into their ideological framework of fetishes = mental illness = evil.

        • Orannis62 [ze/hir]
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          2 years ago

          Yeah like, the whole idea of "autogynephilia" is literally just thinking you look sexy. There's a reason that, according to Blanchard's definition, the majority of cis women would also be AGP

    • GenderIsOpSec [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      Also

      gym bro dedicates hours to working out… and then feels distress at not being a dainty little girl?

      Literally me circa 2016.

      :yea: