:cereal2: One way ticket to Beijing, please

  • Omegamint [comrade/them, doe/deer]
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    2 years ago

    There is a serious and very fucked issue in many Asian countries with viewing older women (like 25+) who are unmarried as being used up or too old. It's super weird. Anything to counteract this is good imo.

    • Teekeeus
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      2 months ago

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    • Tankiedesantski [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      At least with youngish people I know (mid 20s to 30s) in China and Japan, this is more of a thing you hear from your parents or grand parents that you roll your eyes at and disregard.

      I think these days parents are overall more worried about their children staying single forever than marrying someone who's arbitrarily "too old".

      • ZoomeristLeninist [they/them, she/her]
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        2 years ago

        that male surplus in China sure is worrying, im sure thats part of what is driving the older generations to rethink their perceptions

        • SuperZutsuki [they/them]
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          2 years ago

          They need 100 dramas about gay dudes falling in love and being accepted by their community, then