• WoofWoof91 [comrade/them]
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    1 year ago

    if a dom needs to be in control, it's because of some narcisistic god complex that makes them think they're better than others

    :data-laughing:

    most doms i've had fun with have been UwU smoll beans outside the bedroom/woods

    if a sub feels they need to be controlled, it's because they feel inferior to other people

    motherfucker, have you met me?

    • Slaanesh [he/him, comrade/them]
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      1 year ago

      I hate being a het-passing big guy. All I get is "daddy" this and "sir" that. Motherfucker all I want is a dom tying me down and doing their thing until my brain shuts off.

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Don't a lot of Silicon Valley billionaire techbros, the kind that abuse workers and basically own the US government, have a thing for being subbed or even findommed on the side?

      • KobaCumTribute [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        I knew a guy a decade ago who was a stock broker, freemason, and LaVeyan Satanist (I'm not joking about any of this: he was a member of the local freemason lodge, had picked up Satanism when he was in highschool, and one of the last conversations we had was about how he'd just been licensed as a stock broker) who was obsessed with the idea of acquiring power and wealth, and was also the most aggressively open sub I've ever seen.

        • JuneFall [none/use name]
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          1 year ago

          had picked up Satanism when he was in highschool

          To be a free mason you just need to believe in one higher power, so it does check the box.

      • Retrosound [none/use name]
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        1 year ago

        From what I've read, that's why they're always paying for dominatrix services and such. It's called "decision fatigue" and they plain just get tired of being in control all day. It's refreshing to turn off your brain and just do what someone else commands for a change.

    • BeamBrain [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      It'd be like if someone thought I was some kind of war hawk because I love wargaming when I'm far and away one of the most anti-war people I know

    • GreenTeaRedFlag [any]
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      1 year ago

      I'm very arrogant in every day life, but that has never gotten in the way of my sex drive wanting a big strong woman to lace her fingers around my throat and make me see stars.