Is it someone you see and immediately want to make out with/fuck? Because if I see someone who is aesthetically pleasing/interesting, I make the decision to try to get to know them as a person before I escalate things further. And I’m starting to think this is atypical because my track record isn’t great.
Is that just a long-winded way to describe an average crush? Does it vary from person to person?
It's the same for me. But I think there's a bit of a certain vibe I've got to feel too. There's lots of people that I've found attractive, but don't really vibe too well with.
On the flipside there's people that I wouldn't typically be attracted to at first, but as I get to know them I develop a crush for them.
Of course having a crush and doing something about it are two different things. Like I've known my current crush for about two years and I haven't even gotten the courage to ask for her number yet
You can do it!