I'm always paranoid of saying something wrong because of my autism.. I can be very matter of fact like I'll just say things causally then when I re-read (yes I re-read and edit things a lot..) and worry that I've said something like a flex, I don't like upsetting people and I've had people misconstrue my intent loads to the point of being driven out of spaces , so I felt I had to make it clear or at least as clear as my autistic anxious ass can be