yea, it's a construct, but it means something to a lot of people. it's the determinations we make as a society on the basis of gender that suck, not how people feel about themselves.
so "abolish gender" as it's used now in TERF circles means abolish the notion of gender and make "biological sex" supreme. basically, they shifted the language and we're stuck with the consequences of it - as always happens when reactionaries steal our words.
when I say that we instead should focus on the determinations we make on the basis of sex and gender, I'm saying exactly that we stop pushing our notions of the child's gender onto them (determining their upbringing on fixed categories) and instead allow them to express their gender as they see fit. gendering children is part of how we enforce the binary, part of how we enforce sex-based determinism of gender.
yea, it's a construct, but it means something to a lot of people. it's the determinations we make as a society on the basis of gender that suck, not how people feel about themselves.
Being transfem in one sentence: "Passing is a harmful social construct, and I can't wait to do it"
shut up I'll be an anime girl one day
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so "abolish gender" as it's used now in TERF circles means abolish the notion of gender and make "biological sex" supreme. basically, they shifted the language and we're stuck with the consequences of it - as always happens when reactionaries steal our words.
when I say that we instead should focus on the determinations we make on the basis of sex and gender, I'm saying exactly that we stop pushing our notions of the child's gender onto them (determining their upbringing on fixed categories) and instead allow them to express their gender as they see fit. gendering children is part of how we enforce the binary, part of how we enforce sex-based determinism of gender.