There's actually a ton of gender stereotypes around different forms of petplay, such as pup play being for cis gay men or pony play being for straight guys or kittens and bunnies being feminine. It's gotten to the point were some puppy communities have lectures and podium discussions about making the scene more trans inclusive and more open to women and nonbinary people.
I find trans communities to be more open to kink in general, to be full of furries and to have meowing as a form of stimming or low-effort socializing, i've had wonderful t4t experiences as an owner both with the most precious kittens and the very, very best puppygirl anybody could wish for, but pet play definitely isn't an exclusively trans thing, as you can see at any pride parade where the puppy block isn't prohibited from participating either by "no kink at pride" reactionaries or by the cops (the latter having happened repeatedly at German pride parades over the last years, due to Germany's problematic and ambiguous laws against masking at protests). And yes, most of these puppies are gay cis dudes, simply because pup play is so firmly established in their community.
So what i'm saying is, solidarity with all politically persecuted doggos, even the innocent ones.
I mean, I've seen the stereotypical dudes in bondage gear and leather masks at pride, so I get it.
But we have 100% taken it from them at this point, sorry not sorry.
Gettin an AcidSmiley reply and reading all of this incredible insight I had previously not been privy to
I am very online and fear the caress of grass, so it surprises me to hear that various petplay types have gender associations. I'm not really surprised to hear that cishets came up with really dumb gender-stereotypical associations, though cis do better... The idea of lectures and podium discussions for kink inclusivity I find to be a stellar one, though, that slaps.
Yeah it's more my hopelessly narrow experience of primarily trans spaces online, but ngl I do like how kink-open trans communities are, and it makes sense. Prior to hexbear I met, maybe two people ever of that persuasion.
PUPPY CLASHES WITH COPS, turns out pups also say acab, rad. TIL all of this shit though, thank u for informing my dumb ass ✨
There's actually a ton of gender stereotypes around different forms of petplay, such as pup play being for cis gay men or pony play being for straight guys or kittens and bunnies being feminine. It's gotten to the point were some puppy communities have lectures and podium discussions about making the scene more trans inclusive and more open to women and nonbinary people.
I find trans communities to be more open to kink in general, to be full of furries and to have meowing as a form of stimming or low-effort socializing, i've had wonderful t4t experiences as an owner both with the most precious kittens and the very, very best puppygirl anybody could wish for, but pet play definitely isn't an exclusively trans thing, as you can see at any pride parade where the puppy block isn't prohibited from participating either by "no kink at pride" reactionaries or by the cops (the latter having happened repeatedly at German pride parades over the last years, due to Germany's problematic and ambiguous laws against masking at protests). And yes, most of these puppies are gay cis dudes, simply because pup play is so firmly established in their community.
So what i'm saying is, solidarity with all politically persecuted doggos, even the innocent ones.
Puppy play is for the trans girls actually
As was my impression!!!
I mean, I've seen the stereotypical dudes in bondage gear and leather masks at pride, so I get it.
But we have 100% taken it from them at this point, sorry not sorry.
✨ KINK RECLAIMED ✨
General kink that. Nothing wrong with a bit of leather ^^
Who wouldn't love a cute trans girl giving you her best pleading dachshund eyes impression?
Gettin an AcidSmiley reply
and reading all of this incredible insight I had previously not been privy to 
I am very online and fear the caress of grass, so it surprises me to hear that various petplay types have gender associations. I'm not really surprised to hear that cishets came up with really dumb gender-stereotypical associations, though
cis do better... The idea of lectures and podium discussions for kink inclusivity I find to be a stellar one, though, that slaps.
Yeah it's more my hopelessly narrow experience of primarily trans spaces online, but ngl I do like how kink-open trans communities are, and it makes sense. Prior to hexbear I met, maybe two people ever of that persuasion.