Family is hard isn't it? Wish it wasn't.. but you did really good. I think you handled it well keeping a calm response and explaining things plainly and your reasons. It's down to them now and I hope your aunt and whoever else come round.
I know how hard it is. My own family I had to walk away from. But I'm glad your brother is an ally and that's fucking awesome. Really happy for you ^^
Thanks! Yeah, it is hard. And I had a lot of pent up defensive energy about it this morning still. Teenage girl me feeling like 'that bitch is trying to put us back in that shame box.'
After some internal reassurance, the defensive energy relaxed and I got some rest.
That initial confrontation is hard, especially if you have to hold back it can stick with you. I'm glad you were able to clear your head and sleep.
Hopefully going forward it won't be as difficult but I know how it can be but I'm hoping for the best for you. You did great to stand up for what you feel and for yourself.
Family is hard isn't it? Wish it wasn't.. but you did really good. I think you handled it well keeping a calm response and explaining things plainly and your reasons. It's down to them now and I hope your aunt and whoever else come round.
I know how hard it is. My own family I had to walk away from. But I'm glad your brother is an ally and that's fucking awesome. Really happy for you ^^
Thanks! Yeah, it is hard. And I had a lot of pent up defensive energy about it this morning still. Teenage girl me feeling like 'that bitch is trying to put us back in that shame box.'
After some internal reassurance, the defensive energy relaxed and I got some rest.
That initial confrontation is hard, especially if you have to hold back it can stick with you. I'm glad you were able to clear your head and sleep.
Hopefully going forward it won't be as difficult but I know how it can be but I'm hoping for the best for you. You did great to stand up for what you feel and for yourself.