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  • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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    4 months ago

    I think there's another thread about this but I'm queer spaces people will generally they/them you anyway regardless of how clearly you are presenting fem until it's clear. I am, I think, somewhat clearly a she/her but I always get they them'd (and he him'd by cis people -.-)

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      Yes, I had just come from that thread. Its what upset me. I know (at least for some/most) people its not a personal thing, but it still hurts. That I could really try, and people will see that and still they/them an obvious trans girl. idk, I get it (about enbies especially) but... I don't know. Still makes me sad.

      Oh and also people who they/them only trans people but have no problem with cis people's pronouns.

      • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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        4 months ago

        Yes it's sorta frustrating but also important to be inclusive ofc. You can never tell though if someone is like "Just making sure" or genuinely like "uhh what are your pronouns" lol