I know its just a stupid consumerist holiday or whatever, but damn finding out the truth gave 9 year old me issues with trust.

  • MerryChristmas [any]
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    4 years ago

    I may be biased, but I'm actually thankful that my parents raised me to believe in Santa. I'm not sure where I picked this up, but for years I believed that Santa was God's righthand man - I even prayed to him when I had night terrors. I had a lot of weird religious rituals due to OCD. When my dad told me the whole thing was a sham, the first thing I asked was "Well what about God?"

    I know it's stupid, but that was a big moment for me. I pretty much believed everything adults told me at face value up until that point, and seeing my entire worldview exposed as a lie taught me to question authority at a young age. I honestly might have grown up as a bootlicker without that experience.

    • darkcalling [comrade/them,she/her]
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      4 years ago

      I feel pretty much the exact same way. It unintentionally teaches many children that parents can lie to them, that adults can make up elaborate stories and rituals to explain things. And it gets one to think a bit.