i don't feel anything i'd call gender but it seems like most people do and that's cool
I really like queer, goblin
, even fae as my gender. Gender 
are up for me when it is funny, and this often means subverting expectations of binary gender in whatever way is possible. Queer is resistance, queer is joy. I am a queer, I am goblin, I am a woman, and present as such, or at least adjacent to, but am also not.Love to all my fellow queer comrades, and as always, down with cis.
I like "dyke" as a gender, partly because the word itself is harsh sounding, partly because I find gender to be weird. I knew in my teens I was gonna have to do something about the hormone situation, but that doesn't necessarily say anything about my gender. I don't really like "woman" for myself, it feels weird and loaded with expectations and also all the stuff in the Gender Accelerationist Manifesto Which You Should Read pretty much ruined my brain and now I can't take binary gender that seriously anymore, personally.
Whatever my gender is, it's very strongly coloured by being trans and autistic. "Non-binary" describes perfectly where I'm at but beyond that it's sort of vague and wobbly. I can identify a lot stronger with the sapphic stuff than anything else. I'm not a full-tilt agender void goblin (
) but I'm probably closer to that than "woman". I needed to shirk the label before I felt comfortable messing with skirts, makeup, or actually enjoying my body. Something about binary labels does not fit.Edit: I also did a similar cool thread once which you might like
Still figuring that out. I want to be femme, I want a femme body and a femme voice, I like she/her pronouns, but I have trouble knowing if I "feel" like a women. I don't know if I'm a nonbinary transfemme or an insecure binary trans woman.
I keep accidentally referring to myself as “we” in conversation.
My gender is an absolute clusterfuck, and I'd say it's pretty fluid. It depends on how I'm feeling, what I'm wearing, what I'm doing, etc. Probably sounds weird, but it's how I feel, and I've realized that in trying to stick to one gender I've been forcing myself into boxes and hindering myself. So yeah, sometimes I feel gender, in rarer times I don't, sometimes that gender feels closer to the binary, and sometimes it's all over the place, and sometimes it's a combination of multiple of those. I'm weird
. Still like being feminine though, so it all revolves around trans-femthing.i'm afraid this kitten shipped without gender installed.
but i'll try to tell u about myself. i'm intersex, spent my childhood and teen years switching between gender presentations, and i've tried taking either and both E and T for years, my ideal body is just ambiguous. both hormones give me some level of dysphoria in different ways. my pronouns are they or it. i'm not fussed about pronouns most of the time, but it would feel weird for people who know me to use gendered pronouns.
i exist. people expect me to have a gender and they get confused when i don't but that's okay.
flowers, and also bryophytes, and lisp and functional programming, and also 2000s wicca, and lead exposure, and coffee brewed way too strong at 3am, and baggy layered dune-esque clothing, and gigantic dangly earrings, and falling asleep in a pile of wiring and test equipment and scientific apparatus, and a subtly cute amount of makeup, and a smell of cloves,...... etcetra
I want to take a cheese grater to the parts of me that still adhere to binaries tbqh; but it's just not enough for me to sand it all down. That sounds too negatory, an intent on rendering a space of nothingness when what I see is something-and-all. A perfect liminality, rather than one, the other, or both.
Future-proofed androgyne neogender basically.
