it's not productive to see things on an individual basis all the time. It's more than just you :3
But in seriousness, what will probably help is changing how you approach social justice issues. It's not about the fight, it's about the liberation that is possible. Wouldn't it be nice if race/gender/etc. wasn't ever a social issue because the toxic underpinnings that led to such constructs all vanished? A body with fewer organs would be nice. Getting to that place involves acknowledgement, not avoidance. And it can be as simple as removing stigma around identifying pronouns :)
it's not productive to see things on an individual basis all the time. It's more than just you :3
But in seriousness, what will probably help is changing how you approach social justice issues. It's not about the fight, it's about the liberation that is possible. Wouldn't it be nice if race/gender/etc. wasn't ever a social issue because the toxic underpinnings that led to such constructs all vanished? A body with fewer organs would be nice. Getting to that place involves acknowledgement, not avoidance. And it can be as simple as removing stigma around identifying pronouns :)