Where did you agree with the end result? I didn't see it, and have only read your immediate reply to me. So if I missed something, my bad.

who’s fragile here?

I don't know, are you? It isn't me. I just wandered into a conflict others started and I'm confused about why it's a conflict. I've never given a shit about pronouns. Have them or don't, I don't care. But don't use it as a gateway to exclude more people if you begin pronouns as a way to be inclusive.