I don’t know about that. Feeling sad that you’ve been ghosted is an entirely human feeling of rejection, I don’t think that it makes you abusive and violent to feel shitty about being ghosted.
What does though, is how you react to it. Contacting the person to abuse them because you’ve been ghosted? Shitty and abusive and wrong. Complaining anonymously on the internet isn’t really
I don’t think it’s manipulation, if you like somebody and they disappear it feels bad.
"Ghosting" is and always has been a natural part of human relationships. People who feel bad about it are simply emotionally immature. Maybe they're just naive, but most people who make it a point to complain are manipulative narcissists who are PISSED that they aren't entitled to wear down their victims because of social norms/obligations like they could previously.
Poor, innocent romantics aren't the ones writing paragraphs about how ghosting sucks. Abusive assholes who want to make victims feels obligated to talk to them are.
Ummm this really isn’t a good look... I get where you’re coming from, but this just straight up isn’t true at all. Like, I’m pretty sure I’m not an abusive asshole...
I don’t know about that. Feeling sad that you’ve been ghosted is an entirely human feeling of rejection, I don’t think that it makes you abusive and violent to feel shitty about being ghosted.
What does though, is how you react to it. Contacting the person to abuse them because you’ve been ghosted? Shitty and abusive and wrong. Complaining anonymously on the internet isn’t really
I don’t think it’s manipulation, if you like somebody and they disappear it feels bad.
"Ghosting" is and always has been a natural part of human relationships. People who feel bad about it are simply emotionally immature. Maybe they're just naive, but most people who make it a point to complain are manipulative narcissists who are PISSED that they aren't entitled to wear down their victims because of social norms/obligations like they could previously.
Poor, innocent romantics aren't the ones writing paragraphs about how ghosting sucks. Abusive assholes who want to make victims feels obligated to talk to them are.
Ummm this really isn’t a good look... I get where you’re coming from, but this just straight up isn’t true at all. Like, I’m pretty sure I’m not an abusive asshole...
Abusers never think that they are...