If you genuinely don't like it, then tell them in a serious way, not in the moment.

I do and it doesn’t bother me because I know he thinks it’s cute and I just like being touched. But any time you set a boundary about being touched and your partner disrespects it, that’s a no from me, dawg.

They do it because they think your reaction is cute lol.

I agree though if you tell them not to they shouldn't.

I dunno, maybe they don't think you mean it?

No. I have self image issues.

I think it might be an issue for me if I asked my partner not to and they kept it up. Maybe that’s why I suck at relationships.

Yeah, but we're married so it's not like I'm holding anything back from her anyway

One gf doesn't have any meat on her bones to grab anything the other gf told me a while ago that's not her jam. One nesting partner doesn't mind it and knows it's my way of showing affection they pinch my butt and sides every once in a while. The thickest partner loves getting their sides touched and held. We called them "bumpers".

I let 2 of my partners do it but not the other because they do it weird. Poly life

She calls them chubbly bits, but yes

It's mostly because I am super ticklish