LMAO

    • kristina [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      maybe its because im queer or something and im just willing to label things as they are? maybe she just doesnt know thats a thing you can do?

        • kristina [she/her]
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          4 years ago

          ive been invited to two trans polycules off the cuff before so maybe thats just the queer experience™️

            • kristina [she/her]
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              4 years ago

              im pretty boring so i just cuddled them all and went my way after some drinks but it was nifty. im mono with a slant towards mischievous if my partner lets me

                • kristina [she/her]
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                  4 years ago

                  i gave it a go. it was ok. im a bit of an attention whore so it feels kinda like theres 5 minutes of me getting stuff and 10 minutes of me giving which doesnt feel super right. like my monkey brain is just saying 'wow this is a bit lopsided now isnt it you're doing WAY more work'

                  a foursome sounds more my speed tbh, wasnt fond of the threesome

    • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      I'll go out on a limb and say you shouldn't be in ANY relationship, beyond a professional client-provider with their therapist. Non-monogamous relationships take even more work than monogamous, and require all the negotiations, openness and so on. I think if someone fails at not cheating on one partner will completely fuck up things with multiple partners just as bad.