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    • sappho [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Honestly I tried it for the first time after a hook-up right before the pandemic (normally I just leave afterwards because aaaaaaaaa INTIMACY) and I found it hard. Like I was involuntarily trembling the whole time because I'm a real traumatized bitch and it made the girl I brought home super concerned. She was very kind but it really drove home how broken I am.

        • GottaJiBooUrns [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Personally I get too dang hot when trying to fall asleep with my SO. And as someone who tosses and turns back and forth about a dozen times before finally falling asleep I feel bad doing that while having them right next to me, so I try not to, which can sometimes just make it all the harder for me to fall asleep. So I guess ymmv