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  • Civility [none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    Prolly not healthy to lean on a faceless online lynch mob eternally screaming into the void for emotional support but know that we're here and we love you.

    • DickFuckarelli [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      You can have Zoom calls and not pull out your dick? Wow. Now I get the hub-bub about Toobin.

    • MonarchLabsOne [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Don't we have a Discord? Ya'll can hang out at the channel I made for my Monarch Labs, the coop I'm trying to start.

      https://discord.gg/b7nTKp

  • Jorick [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Haha I totally am mentally well in a world spiralling towards its doom. Real talk though, a good chunk of us are lonely and depressed, so ironically, you're not alone in that situation.

  • sappho [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    Me too :( The last person I was still in physical contact with, she's going back to high risk work. So it's just me and my cat for who knows how many more months. I miss human touch, I miss hugs, I miss physical contact. I keep thinking about how I could possibly find another chronically ill lesbian in the area to quarantine with, but it's a pipe dream, really. It's like my skin hurts for the lack of touch.

  • axont [she/her, comrade/them]
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    4 years ago

    Same same same. It's so hard to do anything anymore.

    It's weird but I wish I at least missed contact. I don't have anyone and never have. Everything feels like decay. I don't know where I belong.

    We probably should organize a video call or something, just to talk or vent. If anyone wants.

    • Cowboyitis69 [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      I will just embarrass myself. Every time I interact with anyone it’s almost always cringe. That’s what happens when you have no interests/hobbies.

  • PurrLure [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    You wanna talk? I know it's not much, but my messages are open.

  • duderium [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Any comrade reading this can also message me any time.

    • sappho [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Honestly I tried it for the first time after a hook-up right before the pandemic (normally I just leave afterwards because aaaaaaaaa INTIMACY) and I found it hard. Like I was involuntarily trembling the whole time because I'm a real traumatized bitch and it made the girl I brought home super concerned. She was very kind but it really drove home how broken I am.

        • GottaJiBooUrns [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Personally I get too dang hot when trying to fall asleep with my SO. And as someone who tosses and turns back and forth about a dozen times before finally falling asleep I feel bad doing that while having them right next to me, so I try not to, which can sometimes just make it all the harder for me to fall asleep. So I guess ymmv

  • hopelesscomrade [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    I've only known isolation from society and my abusive family. I've never really belonged anywhere and I work too much that my life has been nothing but a waste.

  • Cowboyitis69 [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Idk I don’t understand how people blame being lonely on a pandemic. I was lonely long before this shit started, get on my level libs

  • Aspiring_Dirtbag [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    I was totally alienated depressed and lonely for years before the pandemic, so maybe in some ways I was better set up to handle it. Still lonely lol, but I feel like I'm on the up and up now. I feel like social ramifications of all the lockdowns will be quite severe, and are under-talked about. They will affect the vulnerable and alienated disproportionately more. Oh well