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  • BillyMays [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    I’m sorry you’re going through this. I know how hard breaks/breakupscan be. Glad you feel safe enough to talk about it in this community.

    I’ve learned it’s not good to be in a relationship where the other person is okay with having friends that shit on your partner. Honestly, talking bad about your partner to anyone else creates a crack in the relationship and that “friend” will exploit it.

    Not every friend of there’s has to like you, but when the whole friend group is against you it becomes almost impossible for the relationship to work. Hang in there. You got this.

    • Barack_Obama [he/him,he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Thanks for the kind words. I was worried to bring it up as I didn't want to come off as queerphobic or anything like that, cause I am not. But yeah, her new friends within this collective don't like me, but her original friends do for the most part. I am pretty good friends with a couple of them, too. Its hard.

      • BillyMays [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        Yeah I’m with you it’s super challenging. Take this time apart to evaluate the relationship and do what’s best for yourself.