Literally just title, I wanna know if being a commie and being into crazy shit is related

Remember:

No minors or mention of them

Don’t talk about illegal shit

Don’t dox

    • Wmill [they/them, fae/faer]
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      4 years ago

      Maybe acting like a parental figure where it's like blank knows best. Do as I say idk. You are doming from a place of love so using rewards to shape behavior.

      • Grownbravy [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        Yeah, I still have to dip in some more into all that. I seem to attract brats when I was dating and the world was less on fire.

        • Wmill [they/them, fae/faer]
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          4 years ago

          Good luck, admittedly I never dated myself but have done a lot of thinking. I think brattyness is a form of selfishness since this behavior probably is intended to get a reaction out of you. Idk maybe not rewarding them with a response might help.

          • Grownbravy [they/them]
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            4 years ago

            It's always a little poking and prodding, usually to have me "set them straight" I've taken a BDSM test before, and among the top things I'm rated as "brat tamer" was pretty high up there. I like to say I'm very physical with a partner and do like restraining, usually with my hands, a favorite of mine is to restrain both wrists together above or behind with one hand.

            • Wmill [they/them, fae/faer]
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              4 years ago

              So typed in bdsm test and got this https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode . Or is it something else. I kind of want to try these test but I know peeps always treat the results like horoscopes or economics you know made up shit that is not real. Do you think you're results were accurate?

    • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Being a Dom doesn't need or have to involve being mean at all. That's just for people that are into hat stuff. You can be as sensual, or kind or whatever and, in my book that makes for a better dom. I kind of distrust anyone that gets off of actually being mean or degrading or causing pain, and I kind of get the impression there I way too many of these ...

      • Grownbravy [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        not at all, but it feels like the basic understanding of one comes from really bad representations, or exclusively the humiliation type. I dont like humiliating people unless they deserve it, and not in the hot way.

      • HereInRobotHell [they/them,comrade/them]
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        4 years ago

        I kind of distrust anyone that gets off of actually being mean or degrading or causing pain

        I mean there are a lot of assholes but this can be done in a mutually hot and satisfying way

        • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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          4 years ago

          Its a personal thing. If it works for someone else, fine. I personally cant get over it ...