I'm a cis dude, but only bc that's what is easiest. If everyone were to collectively decide I was no longer a cis dude I wouldn't care. I don't really have preferred pronouns but I usually just do he/him cause I don't really care and that's what I present as. I should probably just consider myself agender, but again that seems like too much effort, so eh.

  • Vayeate [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    I'm a straight man who's been rather chudish most of his life and I've recently realized I would really much rather be a woman. Like it's a strong preference but I don't think I'd be happy transitioning and can't imagine ever doing so.

    I grew up with a dad that would admonish me for not being manly enough on rare occasions. I've tried really hard to be masculine my entire life to fit to how society expects me to be. I like men's clothing and all but I really wish I could just fit in with women more without being treated like a man. This is especially difficult because I'm often called handsome/attractive and I guess it's hard for women to let their guard down around a cute guy

      • kristina [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        i personally didnt feel much use in talking to a gender therapist honestly. i did it and all it made me realize is i was a dumbass for doing it and i went and transitioned immediately lmao

        • AStonedApe [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Idk, that sounds pretty useful to me. Eliminating doubt isn't always that easy.

    • kristina [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Like it’s a strong preference but I don’t think I’d be happy transitioning and can’t imagine ever doing so.

      o god thats how it started for me lol