There's a thread on /r/aww where the OP had posted his dog Lolita, and everyone in it is convinced that no one could have a connotation attached to the name independent of the book/movie. Feels like it's just brainworms, but maybe I'm the only person in North America that hadn't really heard much about that book until recently.
there is a bunch of very well known stuff with the name lolita from before everybody knew who epstein was
not saying you are the only one, but yes, you missed something pretty well known in popular culture