It makes me so mad/sad that this is the modern reality for relationships. At the same time my self esteem is skyrocketing because of all the likes like a casino with bright lights and big numbers but the whole thing feels cheapened. I know there's more valid reasons to this besides the fact that idk how to text matches but I'm blanking

  • VernetheJules [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    It's horrible, I was just thinking today how I was so set on meeting someone irl, without a stupid app to bridge the gap. I was on tinder etc. for years and just unhappy with the dynamic. It made me incredibly jaded, and I realized I was so much better trying to approach women in person.

    Then the pandemic hit, so I hopped back on and it's even worse now because I feel like a person who I would want to meet would be just as jaded over dating apps and wouldn't want to use them lmao