It's an awkward experience unless you're A) clean and comfortable with yourself, B) into it in the moment. The most fun is also from reaching the prostate/A-spot, which is difficult to do, depending on finger-length and ass-anatomy.
Not very extensive experience, to be honest. But yeah, I've enjoyed it when my female partner did it to (male) me when the mood was right. It's easier to find the A-spot by yourself, but of course you can manage with communication/toys/gloves. But even without the prostate, the experience of being touched/penetrated is fun in itself - provided both people are into it, obviously.
Yeah I'm pretty sure I felt something in there, it was like a distinct spongy node, but he didn't feel the sort of pleasure we'd read about. It also felt like got further away from my finger if I pushed, which made it hard to do much with it other than sort of rub against it very gently.
A-spot or not, can confirm he enjoyed the feeling of being invaded 😈
Fun times. Yeah, it's not a very high ratio of pleasure to effort. The prostate is a pleasure enhancer, not a source of pleasure by itself. It can also make you lose the erection, even when worked correctly, which is confusing for all parties.
Hmm, will keep this all in mind for future prostate-equipped partners, thanks 😼
I've heard legends of people being able to cum purely from prostate stim, but that might be rare, not sure if there's any way to train that or if you're just wired that way or not.
No idea really, all I know is it works on me. That might not be the case for everyone, I dunno?
I will say though, if the person you are doing it to goes soft, don't let that stop you. I've never been hard while having a prostate orgasm. And yes, those orgasms still literally made me cum.
Anal without preparation, practice, and experience, is like driving for the first time in your life and it's on a fast and populated highway: likely to be weird at best or stressful, not fun, and you could get hurt
I’ve had girls put their finger up my bum before and haven’t enjoyed it, does this make me a fascist?
A committee will have to inspect a re-enactment of the fingering to decide if you are going to the gulag
It's an awkward experience unless you're A) clean and comfortable with yourself, B) into it in the moment. The most fun is also from reaching the prostate/A-spot, which is difficult to do, depending on finger-length and ass-anatomy.
The only truly fascist approach to ass-play is if you're dildoing yourself on camera to prove you don't like it.
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Any personal experience? I talk a big game in this thread but I had trouble with that aspect the only time I tried to do prostate play with a partner.
Not very extensive experience, to be honest. But yeah, I've enjoyed it when my female partner did it to (male) me when the mood was right. It's easier to find the A-spot by yourself, but of course you can manage with communication/toys/gloves. But even without the prostate, the experience of being touched/penetrated is fun in itself - provided both people are into it, obviously.
Yeah I'm pretty sure I felt something in there, it was like a distinct spongy node, but he didn't feel the sort of pleasure we'd read about. It also felt like got further away from my finger if I pushed, which made it hard to do much with it other than sort of rub against it very gently.
A-spot or not, can confirm he enjoyed the feeling of being invaded 😈
Fun times. Yeah, it's not a very high ratio of pleasure to effort. The prostate is a pleasure enhancer, not a source of pleasure by itself. It can also make you lose the erection, even when worked correctly, which is confusing for all parties.
Hmm, will keep this all in mind for future prostate-equipped partners, thanks 😼
I've heard legends of people being able to cum purely from prostate stim, but that might be rare, not sure if there's any way to train that or if you're just wired that way or not.
Can confirm, it's a thing
I have a deep desire to do this to someone one day. Please tell me your secrets 😶
No idea really, all I know is it works on me. That might not be the case for everyone, I dunno?
I will say though, if the person you are doing it to goes soft, don't let that stop you. I've never been hard while having a prostate orgasm. And yes, those orgasms still literally made me cum.
Fair enough, appreciate it 👍🏼
Anal without preparation, practice, and experience, is like driving for the first time in your life and it's on a fast and populated highway: likely to be weird at best or stressful, not fun, and you could get hurt