not wanting to date trans women stems from y’all not viewing them as “real” women... so yes your “preference” is transphobic.— destiny (@MAM1SHAMPOO) July 1, 2020
If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it's time for some introspection.
What if they just don't have any interest in a penis sexually?
I mean... why isn't that fine?
I mean sure you could say it's transphobic to categorically deny wanting to have sex with a transwoman, but isn't it then also misogynist to categorically refuse sex with women? Are gay men misogynists cateogircally? I don't think that holds true. I don't think we can condemn someone as bigoted based on their libido.
Like unless it's a person who normally doesn't have genital preferences (Like a bisexual like myself) who then specifically rejects trans people, I can't agree with your analysis.
This isn't really a personal thing for me though, as I am neither trans, nor do I have a problem with having sex with trans women or trans men, and I might be missing something.
What if they just don't have any interest in a penis sexually? I mean... why isn't that fine? I mean sure you could say it's transphobic to categorically deny wanting to have sex with a transwoman, but isn't it then also misogynist to categorically refuse sex with women? Are gay men misogynists cateogircally? I don't think that holds true. I don't think we can condemn someone as bigoted based on their libido. Like unless it's a person who normally doesn't have genital preferences (Like a bisexual like myself) who then specifically rejects trans people, I can't agree with your analysis.
This isn't really a personal thing for me though, as I am neither trans, nor do I have a problem with having sex with trans women or trans men, and I might be missing something.