Who wants in? We can talk about what is was like to write a letter to your grandma or having no other way to ask someone out other than by calling them on the phone. Or checking out movies at Blockbuster or whatever your national equivalent was (we usually checked out videos at the grocery store, actually).

We’re cool because we can actually remember the USSR and “East” Germany. Although not as cool, I can remember when homophobia and transphobia was so much more widely accepted and the “default” position for most Americans. Not as cool.

  • PKMKII [none/use name]
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    9 months ago

    40-something here: I hope to live to see the day I am hanged for being cringe and not based.

  • ratboy [they/them]
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    9 months ago

    Not old enough to fit in with the oldheads, not young enough to fit in with the zoomers. This is my burden to bear

  • came_apart_at_Kmart [he/him, comrade/them]
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    9 months ago
    • i used to have like 6 or 7 phone numbers memorized, besides the house line.
    • i remember when we got the caller ID box, i thought it was like being in the CIA to know who is calling.
    • "Get off the computer, I need to use the phone!"
    • blockbuster was a big deal movie night, but we also had impulse grocery store rental nights. i used to love looking at the VHS tape boxes, the artwork etc. especially horror/sci fi. i was the youngest, so nobody gave a shit what i wanted to watch and if they did, no one ever wanted to watch what i wanted to watch, which was entirely based on box cover art.

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    • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]
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      9 months ago

      Idk if you've seen any of Panos Cosmatos' movies (Beyond the Black Rainbow, Mandy), but he's talked about he wants to make the movies he imagined when he looked at the box art in the videos store

    • FALGSConaut [comrade/them]
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      9 months ago

      I remember calling my friend and being bewildered that he knew it was me before I even said anything, that was my first encounter with caller ID

    • star_wraith [he/him]
      hexagon
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      9 months ago

      i remember when we got the caller ID box, i thought it was like being in the CIA to know who is calling.

      I definitely remember this feeling.

  • UmbraVivi [he/him, she/her]
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    9 months ago

    Walking into a hexbear meetup only to find out all these power posters are actually 20 years older than me

    late 90s kids (youngest millennials/oldest zoomers) where u at

    • ProxyTheAwesome [comrade/them]
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      9 months ago

      In your 70s? Dang elder cat here. Hexbear apparently has got people who were born in 2008 and people who born in 1950.

      • JuneFall [none/use name]
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        9 months ago

        Which is a good point since the hostile part of the lemmyverse tries to tell us, who have quite a bit of diversity and lived experience that we are all 14 year olds. Some of us witnessed the births of countries which freed themselves from colonialism and USA's influences life!

        It is a try to reduce us to a caricature that can be easily dismissed.

    • QuietCupcake [any, they/them]
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      9 months ago

      If you don't mind me asking, roughly when and how did you become a commie? If it has been a while, would you say your political tendencies have changed or evolved much over that time?

      Just curious. blob-no-thoughts

  • Nakoichi [they/them]M
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    9 months ago

    I'm not quite 40, but I am definitely well over 40 in spirit lol

    • star_wraith [he/him]
      hexagon
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      9 months ago

      Yeah I thought about it before posting and the 40 y.o. line seems a bit high, but “Over 37 Years Old Club” or whatever doesn’t have quite the same ring to it. Open membership anyway.

  • dudes_eating_beans [any]
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    9 months ago

    not 40 yet but they taught us how to use the dewey decimal system and played oregon trail on apple IIe computers with floppy disks so waddup

    • star_wraith [he/him]
      hexagon
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      9 months ago

      My folks have their old rotary phone in the basement. Showed it to my kids and they didn’t believe it was actually a phone.

      • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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        9 months ago

        I've found that at least the models from the late 70s also still work perfectly fine, they use the same plugs as modern phones in my country. Audio quality on them is excellent, too.

          • thisismyrealname [he/him]
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            9 months ago

            the western electric 500 and 554 were so ubiquitous that even a mint condition one will sell for around $50 on ebay. they're built so well that it'll probably keep working for another 50-100 years with occasional maintenance

      • alexandra_kollontai [she/her]
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        9 months ago

        What did they do, start swiping on it like in those awful comics, or just confused about how it could possibly work?

        • star_wraith [he/him]
          hexagon
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          9 months ago

          Well my kids are very little, they were just confused more than anything.

    • erik [he/him]
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      9 months ago

      My parents used a rotary phone up until a couple years ago when it broke and it was more expensive to buy a rotary than a digital. They hated there was an up charge on phone bills in their area for "touchtone" dialing rather than rotary and so stuck with it until the wheels came off.

    • Dingus_Khan [he/him, comrade/them]
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      9 months ago

      I was barely too young to be around for party lines even. My grandma and my FIL both had them until a few years before I was born

  • Findom_DeLuise [she/her, they/them]
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    9 months ago

    fedposting How do you do, fellow Gen-Xers and X-ennials? Which Seattle grunge band's vinyl albums are you spinning on this lovely day while decked out in your finest flannels? I am partial to Stone Temple Pilots' Core, particularly side B track 4, "crackerman"

    • star_wraith [he/him]
      hexagon
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      9 months ago

      I love the idea of some 42 year old Fed who monitors this site and hates us all, but genuinely likes talking about 90s music and movies with us.

        • star_wraith [he/him]
          hexagon
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          9 months ago

          I mean, for real, let’s say you get paid a full time salary just to watch this site. It’s obvious just being here for 15 minutes, we aren’t a threat to anyone other than like, dispensing general communist ideals. And honestly I don’t think the feds really care that much about that.

          You would have to realize your job is a joke and you’re getting paid to do nothing. I want think hypothetical fed would be like “ok look, I AM a fed. But let me just sit here and shitpost and grift the FBI’s money, and I won’t actually do anything”

  • impiri@lemm.ee
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    9 months ago

    Going to the video store was a nice little weekly ritual. It's objectively more convenient to have streaming services pumping everything into our eyeballs instantly, but the extra friction of a trip out and the slight chance that something might not be available made the movies and games themselves seem more valuable. Oh god I just read back through that and spontaneously dislocated my hip

    • star_wraith [he/him]
      hexagon
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      9 months ago

      I really hope I’m not being a boomer and remembering the past with rose-colored glasses, but there really was something to that weekend ritual of picking out movies at the video store versus just picking whatever from a streaming service. Of course, having all those options available now is incredible too, so not better just different.

      • ratboy [they/them]
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        9 months ago

        I loved it so much! Hollywood Video and Blockbuster ruled. I think being able to pick up the box and look at the cover art and stuff is it's own special dopamine hit

    • erik [he/him]
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      9 months ago

      Man, I loved the video store so much I actually ended up working at one for a few years.

      Had a boss that robbed the place blind, on inventory days while the rest of us were scanning everything in the store, he just sat at the counter up front and manually entered all the UPC numbers of stuff he'd stolen.

      We randomly got a copy of Attack of the Clones that was dubbed in Italian, despite a near complete absence of ethnic Italians in the area, and we would play it all the time because it made the film into a literal "space opera." The film was much better when you couldn't understand the wooden dialog delivered in stilted performances.

      They didn't have enough keys for every shift leader to get one, so I was taught how to jimmy open a lock with a credit card instead for when I had to open the store.

      But of course, the real benefit was the rentals, watched so many director commentaries on DVDs because that was just the coolest thing. I still miss commentaries with streaming stuff these days.

  • Juice [none/use name]
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    9 months ago

    Yeah go ahead and add me to the list of leftists bound for the glue factory

  • WashedAnus [he/him]
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    9 months ago

    I'm just glad there's a group of people older than me. I'll be there in a few years, but it's nice to know I'm not the oldest weirdo here.

  • ratboy [they/them]
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    9 months ago

    Adding to the nostalgia pile BECAUSE memory unlocked: used to be obsessed with talking on the phone in middle school. The LANDLINE phone. 3 way calling the homies to watch old Van Damme movies and Iron Chef and prank call people. I'd be on the phone for like 4 hours at a time. 10pm was the cut off but you bet your ass I snuck the corded phone into my bedroom...then my dad would wake up to go to the bathroom and see the phone cable trailing into my bedroom. Never got grounded buy boy did I get a talkin' to.

    • star_wraith [he/him]
      hexagon
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      9 months ago

      The funny thing is, I’m not nostalgic AT ALL for phone conversations. I think being able to text people is so awesome, I really wish I was able to do that growing up instead of awkward phone conversations.

      • SerLava [he/him]
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        9 months ago

        Oh my god I hated the phone as a kid, absolutely the worst

      • john_browns_beard [he/him, comrade/them]
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        9 months ago

        I was a very socially awkward kid, calling my friends' houses and having to ask their parents if I could speak to them was awful. Say what you will about smart phones, but personal cell phones in general were a lifesaver for quiet nerds like myself.

    • CantaloupeAss [comrade/them]
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      9 months ago

      lmao yeah I used to prank call people from the phonebook on my house's landline phone. It's not like they could ever find out who it was

      • ratboy [they/them]
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        9 months ago

        We uses to use Arnold Schwarzenegger sounds boards. Danny DeVito too, I think lol. Any memorable pranks from your youth?

        • CantaloupeAss [comrade/them]
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          9 months ago

          omg I completely forgot about the existence of soundboards but yes we did that too! Putting the phone up to the computer speaker hahaha

          • ratboy [they/them]
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            9 months ago

            lolll loved that so much. Okay, now my moomer identity is intensifying, caught myself being like "man, that shit was so fun and definitely something zoomers are missing out on". Oof. Although I guess they do hella prank tiktoks now so maybe the method has just sublimated lol

  • ThomasMuentzner [he/him, comrade/them]
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    9 months ago

    i remeber the time when you would just show up at the door of your friends home unannounced and if he wasnt there you would just go to the next and when he was there you would just go with him picking up the next...

    and then once one of these friends got a console , he became the homebase.