YES, thank you. If someone laughs at an asshole for an irrelevant thing they didn't choose and can't change, and I also have that thing, then it doesn't affect me any less because the person they were having a go at is a horrible person. They still might as well be saying it to me... reminds me people will pick up on it. I think it's a lazy excuse because having a cheap go at someone shitty feels good.

I guess the otherwise considerate people I've seen doing it online do stay away from things that are true problems or impediments though. But still, people can feel really shitty about common differences. I dunno... just find something else. Just call them an asshole.