NewAccountWhoDis [she/her]

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  • The way I view it is that many of those traditional excuses used would be acceptable excuses normally, if not for the very clear and often very poorly hidden real reasons behind them being based in transphobic beliefs.

    A person who claims to care about having kids is a reasonable excuse, but then they will go and hook up with people and use condoms and other forms of protection outside of that. Clearly then this excuse isn't actually truthful.

    If they actually showed honesty and practiced their claims, there should be no issue had with them then.

    Edit: Also another point, I think that's a pretty major difference in mindset between "I haven't been attracted to X yet" and the "I will never be" mindset. This also happens with race discussions. While the first can still have issues with bigotry, it certainly at least is not as heavily based into it as the second one is. Anyone who can claim that they never will be is a person who is not open to it primarily for reasons outside of actual attraction, else they will be willing to concede the possibility that if they did find someone attractive it would be okay.






  • NewAccountWhoDis [she/her]tochapotraphouseI don't know any punk tho
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    I think this is part of where the whole "you get more conservative as you grow older" idea comes from the older assholes. They had some level of leftistish ideas as youth around "free love" and "let's do drugs" and "end war" but then later adapted themselves into the libertarian small business tyrants and other shitheads that they are today. Because the hippie movement was more about rebellion and personal satisfaction than communal benefits.







  • NewAccountWhoDis [she/her]togames*Permanently Deleted*
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    Undertale (highly recommend this one very creative game overall), Nier/Nier Automata, Bioshock, Portal, Final Fantasy X, Shadow of the Colossus, All the MGS games, Tales of Symphonia and tales of vesperia, Nine Hours Nine Persons Nine Doors, Xenoblade Chronicles 1 and 2, Prey 2017






  • More and more I become convinced that the human brain just isn't set up to handle the internet properly. There is just no room within many people to stop giving a shit about the masses or individualizing everything.

    People talk about mobbing as its called but what do you expect of the average person? Should we never voice criticism lest it be taken in an upsetting manner simply because someone else with no connection to us is being rude?

    It's not like these are connected groups or something, I have just as much control over @TrollThreatSender1999 as anyone else does, which is nothing. It's on the platforms to handle.

    You kind of see this in almost everything in online discussions in a sense. I've seen no shortage of "You people believe in X" in political arguments for example, often with little actual attempt to confirm that the person they're speaking with does actually believe that. But so many people just lump them all together anyway because it makes things easier to process and handle.

    And no offense but when you really look at these sorts of things the amount of active and direct harassment tends to be relatively minimal (at least compared to the number of people engaged in online discourse). It just feels overwhelming because you see so much criticism pouring in alongside the harassment that is actually happening and it melts our brain and we compartmentalize it all together as being harmful.


  • This actually happens a lot in China, Xi Jinping himself lead like five or six (somewhere around there, not like Im commiting this to memory) provinces before he was allowed to start working more in the higher ups of the party.

    I agree that there might be some room for concern about representation not existing at that very top level but in theory at least local representatives would be working with these more experienced heads directly and help guide them into individualized policies.