the problem with trucking afaik is that often times drivers are expected to deliver cargo in an unreasonably low amount of time, leading into them having to skip on sleep and driving in dangerous conditions. though the pay seems to be pretty good from a working class perspective.
damn, i'm so very sorry you had to go through that. i can't even imagine how scary that must have been. :Care-Comrade: you should be very proud you've become a better person than you were raised to be and breaking the cycle of abuse. i respect that quite a bit.
i'm wary of dogs i don't know too well even though i've never been attacked too bad before. they also almost universally seem to not like me at first so there's that too.
the pure breed fixation society seems to have is weird as fuck and probably telling of how people view the concept of race. at the same time i don't really judge people who only get pure-breed dogs (even if they are inhumane like pugs) too harshly because it's something that's very normalized and seen as a status symbol. i feel like that's changing quickly though, hopefully i'm right.