my new years resolution is to get gayer. i'm pretty satisfied with the level of trans i'm on, though i might get my gender legally changed. i do want to update my wardrobe a bit (my fashion sense has evolved since i first really did that post coming out) but money is very expensive

what are all of you hoping for this year?

  • Pluto [he/him, he/him]
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    10 months ago

    I guess my resolution is to know if I'm non-binary or asexual.

    • Cromalin [she/her]M
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      10 months ago

      you could always be both. good luck figuring out who you are!

      • Pluto [he/him, he/him]
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        10 months ago

        Really?

        I somehow in my head thought they were interrelated.

        I just don't feel masculine, is all, and I don't want to be.

        • Cromalin [she/her]M
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          10 months ago

          fair warning, none of the following identities are ones i personally have experience with (though i have close friends who have). i might not be 100% right about all this, but i think i am

          asexual just means you don't (or mostly don't) experience sexual attraction. you might be thinking of agender which is when you don't have gender. that also isn't exactly exclusive with being nonbinary, which just means you aren't part of the gender binary, and not having gender is also removing yourself from the gender binary