I am still very early in this whole process, and there is still a lot of self doubt, so I am reading a lot of literature on "Am I trans" and dysphoria.

One concept that people often like to propose in these ressources is the button that makes you the opposite gender, and, crucially, also makes everyone else believe that you have been that way forever.

I don't really like this, because my time as a boy/man is part of who I am. I would not be me without it, and despite all of the problems I had and have due to my gender, it is still part of who I am. I fought through all of this and worked to find out who I want to be by myself. I wouldn't wanna be cis, and I also don't want to cease being the me born out of this struggle.

  • pooh [she/her, any]M
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    9 months ago

    I wish I had a slider where I can just change my gender from one side to the other, or somewhere in-between, through nano-machines that can rapidly disassemble and rebuild my anatomy.

    • WithoutFurtherBelay
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      9 months ago

      Video game character creation slider for real life

        • WithoutFurtherBelay
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          9 months ago

          An IRL personal boob slider is not only more reasonable than a full on character creation menu, it is a necessity. It is a travesty and disgusting that this obvious gender affirming tool has not yet been invented.

        • Raebxeh
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          8 months ago

          Removed by mod

    • Dessa [she/her]
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      9 months ago

      turning a big dial taht says "Gender" on it and constantly looking inward to myself for approval like a contestant on Dr. Phil

    • keepcarrot [she/her]
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      9 months ago

      And like... You could do it arbitrarily, you didn't do it once.

      • pooh [she/her, any]M
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        9 months ago

        Yeah, like one day I could be a sleek androgynous cyber ninja, and then the next day be a super cute and fluffy hybrid tiger-girl. That would be amazing.

        • kristina [she/her]M
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          9 months ago

          Guess maybe vr will have a solution to this issue eventually 😔