if you call everyone dude and a transfem person gets mad about it, don't get defensive. just say like "sorry, i won't do it again" and don't argue "actually it's gender neutral" or "i call everyone dude". even if you do, i guarantee she's heard that argument from someone who very much does not call people they see as women dude. i certainly have

same goes double for the word guy.

  • Cromalin [she/her]
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    8 months ago

    bro is the most gendered term! why are people like this?

    • Erika3sis [she/her, xe/xem]
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      8 months ago

      They say bro so much that their speech is just like bro bro bro bro, we should call them brobrorians or something

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      4 months ago

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