I am a cis white man, so I want to be clear that I am not saying that I know any better, or think that I know the very real fears and concerns that the trans (or traaaaaaaannnnnnnns) men/women or other LGBTQIA+ folks have. Just saying my honest and hopefully helpful opinions.

I would highly advise that anyone that is stuck where they are for whatever reasons, to arm themselves and see if there are any LGBTQIA+ and/or leftist gun/self-defense orgs near you. I do not say this simply as a pro-gun leftist (which I obviously am). But as a practical matter of having something(s) to protect yourself with if needed. It is much easier to get things now and be getting some ammo over time (doesn't have to be every pay-check or any more than you can deal with). As opposed to after shit has hit the fan, and right-wing folks most certainly have the advantage already. It is also much better to have time to learn how to use/clean whatever you get.

If there are groups close or kind of close to you, then it would at least be good to know about them and join if possible. I can only speak of my chapter of the SRA, but we try to have range days to go out as a group of however many people. We have also been starting to get some Stop the Bleed classes for members (still very early on that). One of our members got certification to teach concealed carry classes needed to apply for concealed carry. It is also a good way to not feel alone to find any groups that vibe with your beliefs (no matter self-defense or more generally speaking). Even if you are able to get out of an area, the highly reactionary assholes can still find ways to infect places that are currently more safe than others. Community and shared efforts towards watching out for each other matter and can make life suck less.