really sad because me and my two gfs' expensive and lengthy attempt to move to a better country has completely failed. the most frustrating part is that we have the means in theory to make it happen. but as I feared we faced so much discrimination for being an unconventional family (landlords don't see us as a family unit, just 3 "friends") and being disabled and so not having work or education lined up in the new country has proven to be a deal breaker. just feeling trapped here atp and actually looking forward to being back in our shitty apartment at home that we all hate because at least it's familiar and waking up in this temporary accommodation in the new country for the last couple weeks has just felt like a cruel reminder of our failure.
a bit of a vent post
really sad because me and my two gfs' expensive and lengthy attempt to move to a better country has completely failed. the most frustrating part is that we have the means in theory to make it happen. but as I feared we faced so much discrimination for being an unconventional family (landlords don't see us as a family unit, just 3 "friends") and being disabled and so not having work or education lined up in the new country has proven to be a deal breaker. just feeling trapped here atp and actually looking forward to being back in our shitty apartment at home that we all hate because at least it's familiar and waking up in this temporary accommodation in the new country for the last couple weeks has just felt like a cruel reminder of our failure.