I'm not out yet (and tbh have only accepted it for a very short amount of time), and I still live with people who I think would be unsupportive. So I may have to wait for my financial situation to improve and move out, maybe I can start hrt but still need to boymod sooner? I don't know this is all still very new.

I'm not entirely sure what your situation is, maybe I forgot? Edit: wow we're married and I don't even remember your life situation.