Just thinking about how much sooner my egg would have cracked if I had ever vocalized my gender envy ("damn I wish I was her") to the right people. I never did because I thought that was part of finding someone attractive and was/would be seen as the same as me (a straight guy at this point) saying "damn she's hot" which would be objectifying and rude.
It was sort of a coordinated effort by the pair of them to get me to read this stupid book with a trans lead, which is apparently the only language I speak fluently!
Just thinking about how much sooner my egg would have cracked if I had ever vocalized my gender envy ("damn I wish I was her") to the right people. I never did because I thought that was part of finding someone attractive and was/would be seen as the same as me (a straight guy at this point) saying "damn she's hot" which would be objectifying and rude.
It's often a matter of luck sadly, like I needed my ex and english teacher to crack my egg...
I remember you talking about your ex a little bit (unless it was a different ex?) but how did your english teacher help you?
It was sort of a coordinated effort by the pair of them to get me to read this stupid book with a trans lead, which is apparently the only language I speak fluently!
Real