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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    6 months ago

    thonk What if bear website had a kink comm where u could air goofy ass thoughts and ask stupid questions.................. I mean I kno volcel pledge but.............

    • Thallo [she/her]
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      6 months ago

      Would honestly like a comm where sex could be openly discussed. A lot of people figure out they are queer through sexuality, and I feel like blocking it obscures a major part of queer identity.

      I understand why we have the volcel culture, tho

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        Yeah Idk, I think about this a lot too... I have two wolves, one is "awoo" and one remembers that cishet allos browse the site :/ hate to see it.

        Do you think that would even be possible, feasible?

        • Thallo [she/her]
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          6 months ago

          It's probably feasible, but I'm not sure it's worth it.

          Could have a minimum account age requirement to get in. Or make the comm on request only. Make DMs related to the comm posts bannable.

          Shit like that.

          Or just make a totally separate instance called sexbear and let people go wild lol

          • ashinadash [she/her]
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            6 months ago

            Ooooh I like the request-only, no-dm's comm idea!!

            I'm not theoretically against a Sexbear either, but like agni-pain I personally am not gonna be in a space where allos are doing awooga 24/7 lol

        • magi [null/void]M
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          6 months ago

          It would need to be mercilessly moderated, nothing worse than trying to have a good discussion and it turns too horny. screm-pretty

          • ashinadash [she/her]
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            6 months ago

            Idk if that would even be reasonable - a purely discussion centric kink board, no honry. Perhaps? Would be neato...

            • magi [null/void]M
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              6 months ago

              Ikr.. we've been in some places before where it has been incredibly uncomfortable.

              It would be..