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Many parents do suck
and it really sucks for our comrades who would want to have kids and as you say jump through those hoops. It is an unfair world at times for sure.
From what you've said about your mom being against fem leaning I'd agree with your assessment, personal bias can skew out views sadly but it is understandable. I'm sorry that it makes it difficult for you though, a case of heart in the right place but clouded somewhat.
I know it's probably difficult for you if you want to present fem, I'm genuinely sorry, she sounds like a good person at heart and I get her trying to protect you as clouded as her views are. I hope in the future things can improve for you (able to dress fem leaning) if that's what you want.
I have some bad days but I have my wife for support. Thank you for the reply <3
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Thanks. I agree her hearts in the right place. Given her own issues with gender, I sorta give her a pass. She's also tried to be supportive at times, but its usually obvious she's saying things to be supportive, which sorta betrays a slight disapproval? I appreciate the effort though.
I still do some things how I want, but still feel like I should avoid certain things. I don't live there at least.
Random funny story: One time, I was wearing thigh highs under my pants and after I took them off and left them on the floor in my room (or maybe in my shoes). Not even 30 seconds passed from when I left my room to when our little dog (who loves stinky socks) brought one of my socks out into the living room where me and my mom were. At least the dog seemed to be pleased with that clothing choice! I don't think my mom noticed.
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She seems like a good person under it all so I'm happy for you there. Supportive is better than nothing c:
Getting out of the same space is probably the best too, at least you can present how you feel when not in that space
lol that's really funny about the dog, I bet it was super awkward but funny too lol, they always love stinky socks funny that lol well hopefully you can get peace to wear your socks now that you have your own space and no dogs to tell on you ^^ I wish you well in your future endeavours c: